Take this girl, for instance, she is out there. She could be in my city. She is looking for a guy like me based on my race and she doesn’t care who I really am as a person. This is why I avoid white girls. This has become a common trend for white girls to bash on white guys and seek revenge by dating a brown guy like me. Bruh? I’m not saying all are like this but the possibility of dating one like this is what turns me off. She might come off as fake, pretend to like tacos but she really hates them and even might leave me once her curiosity is over about me. Lastly, we are supposed to be dating our own women of color because society tells us that white girls are prettier because ours contradict their “Eurocentric beauty standards” for being too dark. As a result, many Latina and black girls view themselves as less pretty than white girls (not all but some). You Hispanic or black guys can date your white girls all you want! While you date a self hating white girl that is only curious about you or dating you to get even with white guys, I will be dating a Latina and uplifting her and telling her Eurocentric beauty standards are nonsense and she is more beautiful.
This is a very interesting post. You are a very thoughtful and intelligent person. I like to think that race would not matter to me in seeking a girlfriend. If somebody was nice and of good character and was attractive I would go out with her (if I was not married, of course) but the truth is I never dated anyone outside my race. I had several friends that were girls that happened to be black of Asian but it never went beyond that. I do think that dating somebody on the basis of race is indeed racism.
I hate to say it but I do kind of agree. White women can be very psycho and crazy. Just last month this white girl was being a prick blocking the entire aisle and told me to go around. Like that's exactly what I was doing... Trying to go around her so I can line up and checkout. And the thing is she was skinny so I don't understand why she couldn't move and let me walk by her.
And you see the stuff on social media, news, and music. Like they're you just see all sorts of different crap. Like they think they're being strong, independent, fighting for a cause, etc...
But it just comes off crazy and self centered. Oh and let's not forget Karens.
You have a right to be scared because of your last experiences. I honestly have to agree, as a black girl I don’t want to date some person out of my race and end up finding out they just had a fetish.
I’m still open minded but that’s the sad thing you have to look out for when dating.
I honestly don’t mean what I say. I’m just venting because it bothers me how a lot of these girls put down white guys. In my experience, a lot of them are cool. In high school, most Latinas preferred white guys or white hispanic looking guys and they never used to talk bad or try to make the darker guys like me feel bad.
You're not wrong. Many white women these days definitely sexualize black guys mostly because of trends in porn. When I hear some white women talk they brag about hooking up with black guys and always discuss if he had a big black cock or not. I think most black guys are fine to be objectified by white women, but I have heard some black guys talk about how they dated a white girl, liked her a lot and she fucked his friends right away (Other black guys). Basically the feeling out there is that white women and black men use each other for sex, but their relationships are absolute shit because it's mostly the crazy white sluts that pursue black men.
Dude ! You're 20 ! Who cares what her motives are? If she's cute, then hit it and quit it. No reason to be overthinking things and trying to make a relationship out of it. Don't rationalize turning down perfectly good pooniata, just because she ain't right in the head. TBH few of them are, lol !
you can date whoever you want bc its your life so that isn't wrong
altho i think you're overthinking it too much bc not all white girls are the same. everyone is different and has their own personality. it sucks you feel that way though
Well I won't say you're wrong for thinking this way because I also noticed a lot of women doing this. I think it's most of the time self hate or fetishism. Both is wrong, and I see it happening more often. But I don't think race should matter when dating, but everyone has a preference. Having a preference is normal but fetishism is just plain disgusting. So I get why you think that way but there are also a lot of women who just have a preference, so maybe try not to assume the worst.
Well there’s far more to it than just what you explained when it comes down to it. I haven’t quite pieced it together but even aside from the points you mentioned. I’ve generally found white women detestable. Especially their attitude about being the “most beautiful” as you said. I’d take an average looking woman with great personality over that any day.
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If white guys helped us out, it would be awesome but they aren’t yet. If you started making white guy with Asian or Latina movies, it would basically rename Eurocentric beauty standards
I really hate Eurocentric beauty standards to be honest. I don’t see color when it comes down to it. Just character. And most non-white women tend to have it more often.
My ultimate focus has always been dating compatibility. I can’t see myself marrying a white woman anymore at this point and it has nothing to do with my own self hatred. Just their attitude towards everybody. They always treat other people (including white men) like we are beneath them. I can’t tell you how many times they’ve picked on me for being an autistic shy boy instead of offering support like most minority women always did.
Honestly speaking love doesn't care about which race u are from, it's just like if u both vibe together, u are made for each other. Or else its pretty easy to find out who's faking it, and if u do get fooled by someone, there's no shame to it, u just got a lesson to learn. We humans got really beautiful colours and all we devils could do is use them to divide ppl🤦. Just date the one u like mate.
I don't think that's the primary reason a majority of them do that, but if that's a concern of yours, you have every right to not date them. It's entirely your choice and while I may not have made that choice myself, I won't condemn you for it.
Ah yes she's using them to piss off daddy. Mostly that white liberal guilt shit. They think they won't be racist after. She's got racist stamped on her forehead.
You can not want to date them. You have all the right to do that. But I never heard of girls wanting to date other races to "get back at us" white guys.
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Yeah, imagine I happen to date someone like that? What a waste of time
i can basically finesse all three, im hispanic but technically there's black in my family tree so i can say im part black and im American, im also white 😇
I love white girls, black girls, yellow girls, all girls. No race matters more than another. All women or men, gender or race, opinions are bound to defer. We are all beautiful collectively in diversity
Women in general can be scary simply because we don't understand them as men in the beginning of dating now if you have wisdom and confidence eventually they won't be scary
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There are still some good white girls but we can all see that they are trending downwards. Just look for nice people whatever their race and make them your special lady
Every guy in my family whose been with a white girl either married her or impregnated her and I think it’s given me some mental block from dating white girl no matter how attractive they are
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