As a white American male is it bad that I have it made up in my mind that I’ll never find any American white girl worth dating?

[WhiteBoyChill]

I just feel as though whenever I meet latina women things go well. I actually feel interested in them and they are also interested in talking to me.

But its just I’ve been struggling to find any white American girl that would even be worth dating.

By and large they’re all just such toxic, narcissitic people, but then again, I have friends who are with white girls that aren’t that way at all.

There are a handful of good white girls left obviously its just for whatever reason I suck at finding them. They’re not out in the open everywhere. They are difficult to get to.

But then again I’m not looking to climb mountains and build bridges just to be with a girl in my own culture. When there’s already several women in a different culture that meet my standards in the open.

I’m not willing to have it be this super difficult thing where I gotta date 109 white girls just to find one I’m attracted to. But by and large that’s the impression I have on what it’s gonna take. And I am absolutely positively 100% unwilling to do that.

[CALIGVLA]

It's surely not their skin color which causes it, but this is what white women have actually become anyway. Most of them don't have even the slightest hint of dignity, honor, self-respect and emotional maturity these days.

The saddest part is that they're not gonna learn through love... They can only learn through humiliation, demoralization and contempt, or simply rejection. If you can't stomach it, don't go for a white woman.

But you can be sure that women from any non-Western background are not like that for the most part. Pretty much every non-Western culture I know value the family unit, love and traditional values, the Western culture is the only exception in my opinion. Although the political power is still hold by males in Western societies, culturally the West is actually a matriarchal society, which explains why it's become so chaotic since matriarchal societies tend to be unstable and self-destructive.

I like Asian girls and I'm more than happy with mine. But Latinas are also good. Arab girls are also excellent. Indian girls are good too.

If you wanna date a non-Western woman the first thing you need to learn about is cultural sensitivity. Show her respect for her culture. Don't mock her beliefs, don't push the boundaries, don't try to impose yours, as these are the most common mistakes white men do when dating non-Western women.

[WhiteBoyChill]

“Don't mock her beliefs, don't push the boundaries, don't try to impose yours”. I mean for me that’s easy enough. Its called just being human

[CALIGVLA]

True, but those are common mistakes. Unfaithfulness + lack cultural sensivity are the most common mistakes white men do when dating non-white women.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I see. So do you travel a lot? I’m curious what you do to make international dating work?

[CALIGVLA]

Yes, I travel a bit.

It's easier to date a foreign girl in my opinion since they tend not to play us the way white girls do. The most exhausting things about dating white girls in my opinion are these three ones:

#1 You have to always keep giving her "emotions" and entertaining her. Good sex is not enough. In fact, nothing is enough, they will always be finding fault with something.

#2 Many tease us to keep us as an "option" until she decides whom she likes the most. They waste our time doing this.

#3 The worst one. They come with too much negative baggage from previous relationships.

Those three characteristics are not seen as appropriate behavior outside of any Western society. We have a culture of promiscuity, having fun at any cost and consumerism, the rest of the world doesn't for the most part.

[CALIGVLA]

That said, I found it considerably easier to get along with foreign girls. I've dated foreign girls here in the US as well (a few immigrants and some girls who were here on an interchange program).

It depends on your intention.

If you want a traditional girl, you either bring her to the US or you take up residence in her country, and eventually settle down with her. You need means to provide for her in both cases. What are you studying at uni? Depending on the field of expertise, it wouldn't be hard for you to find a job overseas. Also, many countries have worthless currencies in comparison with the dollar and you could live well with the money you saved here.

[Ghostykill3r]

It's bad because you shouldn't generalize an entire group of people like that, but it's not bad because you are allowed to have preferences about looks, culture, and attitude. I just wouldn't go around telling people that, and don't automatically assume that every white American woman, or every Latina, is going to be the same

[WhiteBoyChill]

I get what you mean its just I don’t really have the patience to find a white girl that works

[Ghostykill3r]

Thats fine, just don't look at white girls then, but if one happens to approach you I'd suggest not to completely discuss them without discussion

[AsaKyo]

It's not really bad cause' I don't blame you with how most of them are nowadays lmao

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah. Are you from USA yourself?

[AsaKyo]

Sadly, yes

[WhiteBoyChill]

Awh man. The dating culture does just absolutely suck altogether here.

[KrakenAttackin]

American females have completely failed to live up to the most basic aspects of being decent people. American women created "hookup" culture, kill babies en masse, many are alcoholics, have been so over fucked that they will never be able to genuinely bond with a man, and have little potential to be decent partners.

Can you honestly see most American women raising your children? American women are legitimately disasters.

[WhiteBoyChill]

That’s what I’m saying. Like 95% of American women cannot be mothers. And desperately seeking out the other 5% just isn’t worth my time, or a good use of it either

[KrakenAttackin]

Get a passport bro.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Well I still have to work and make money obviously. But I guess what I could do is meet foreign women online, videocall them for a couple months, and then just take vacation time and meet up with them

[jshm2]

No. It's good that people, like you are no longer bred as much. You'll turn gay and become an evolutionary dead end to boot. Maybe even change gender, and become a depressed maniac.

[WhiteBoyChill]

How much formal education have you had?

[HighValue]

I'd bet that you likely live in a liberal area and that is why you don't meet normal ones.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I do live in a liberal area

[HighValue]

Figures. I suggest moving to a more conservative area if you want a better quality mate with better morals. I hope you are also high quality with a good moral past too, because that is what they will expect in a mate.
I totally understand though. Having lived in California for many years, the majority of women here are unfit to be a long term mate, and yes, White women here do seem to have liberal morals (using drugs, heavy alcohol drinking, very promiscuous, dishonest, etc.) more often than Hispanic or Asian women do from the ones I have met IRL.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Well even still I do have reservations about conservative white girls because a lot of them do seem very tomboyish.

I still want a really hyperfeminine woman

[alcorriher]

no thats ur opinion