Is it really that bad for guys with both white girls and now some other Westernized women?

[Anonymous]

I don't really get involved in politics, inequalities nor anyone's struggles but I got curious recently and was shocked.

I've noticed a couple on other sites and even 2 male cousins were complaining about these group of women. One of my cousin got disappointed with a Mexican girl. He thought she was different but she's been raised in New Jersey since she was an 18 month-old baby and he referred to her as a coconut, no traditional values in her, nothing of unique culture (she couldn't cook anything and even brag about it), none. In his own words he said ''she's been contaminated''.
Someone else said something similar about a Japanese-American girl, born in US but both parents from Japan.

I thought we have it hard in the dating world but wow their increasing complains over the years are alarming. Is it really that bad for guys? I find that hard to believe.

Yes, it is that bad... it's true

No, it's not bad.. they're imagining things

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I could have sworn the dating world was ok 5-10 years ago. I fell asleep and really thought things were getting better. It seems they're getting worse than ever.

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah, it's honestly every bit as bad as you're being told. A lot of American women are incredibly angry, resentful, caustic people; kind of like InCels are among men, but it's way more mainstream thinking for women. Even if you're a romantic, commitment-oriented man, seeing your dating options in America would kill any interest you have in trying to bond with a woman.

Also, the dating world sucked 5-10 years ago, but it's way worse now. Society has NOT been making progress in that department at any point in my lifetime.

[Asker]

I'm shocked to be honest. I've been asleep for the longest. Now they're not just complaining about American women but also westernized latinas, Asians, etc too. That girl was my cousin was disappointed with was white American, she was an Americanized Mexican.

[FilmGuy93]

Yup... western culture really ruins women. It promotes toxic behavior, pedestalizes women, constantly belittles men, reminds women about how they don't need men, encourages combativeness. Women get exposed to these ideas that reward them for being unpleasant to men and naturally they start acting those ideas out.

Even if everything the female empowerment narrative said was actually based in reality, why would any man want to invest his time and energy into a person who doesn't value his contributions?

[boggboss]

Things changed both ways both genders started getting more picky which is fair enough

[Asker]

I must have fallen asleep during all this time. I'm surprised things can change so much between 5-10 years.

[boggboss]

No I wouldn't say this its been changing well before that from what a lot of the older generation say just now its easier to see it because of online dating

[Anonymous]

That's mostly a problem when you're trying to date liberals, which I don't much associate with so I haven't had that problem.

[Asker]

I thought things were ok just 5-10 years ago. It seems things are getting worse.

[Anonymous]

White girls have become undateable, no offense. They're extremely promiscuous, full of personality issues, always come with a bad past and a crazy ex. I'm not going to do the same mistake of dating one of them ever again.

My experiences with Asian girls and Latinas have been positive and I still have no reasons to complain about them, but I know that Western culture can ruin them as well. The Western culture has a super reverse Midas effect, it can turn gold into shit. 😆

[Vesuvius87]

It can't be all bad. Why do women have to be placed on the promiscuous category? There is the middle ground which is being intimate in a long-term relationship; she's isn't sleeping around nor is on the other ''religious, waiting till marriage'' extreme either.
A couple things good about the Western culture for a woman is at least you have practice no religion at all, can put a hold on motherhood until you're ready and can do what you want with your life.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vesuvius87 Notice that I'm not saying that Asian women or Latinas are promiscuous. I named the kind of women I see engaging in extreme promiscuity.

[Vesuvius87]

I saw it. I still think there are non promiscuous, stable women in every single ethnicity. I'm sure there are some good white girls too. It might be the places you were searching.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vesuvius87 Of course, but I'm worrie because I hear men from other areas with the same complaints too, it's suspicious.

On the other hand, I believe the Western culture ruined men too, I see many of my friends hurt their girlfriends, crushes or wives because those guys are too self-centered and reckless.

[Vesuvius87]

Yes, it happened with my first boyfriend, now blocked ex boyfriend. He was a normal hispanic (that's what I thought) but he copied the trashy behavior of the lovebomber that fakes future, even when we weren't even living together he still lies about wanting kids and marriage, cheats, scammed with money (owes me like $1,300) and lastly drains my most fertile years. He lives off women's money and uses them. The bastard even owes his own mother money too.
I'm currently in my 2nd secondly and just taking things at a normal pace, not too fast but not too slow either. I have been wanting kids for the longest, since age 28.

[Vesuvius87]

Off course when I found out what he was, I was furious. That's the one single time my fiery temper (Latina stereotype) came. I don't get upset, rarely ever.. unless someone really hurts me badly or is something serious. What he did was indeed worse than serious, cruel. I can't think of any girl that wouldn't get upset at that.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vesuvius87 That guy seems to be a total deadbeat and you're 100% right about being upset. The Western culture is turning men into menchildren and I see mamy women get hurt by one or some of them.

My criticism against men is even harsher than my criticism against women since I admit that men of all races are becoming infantile, weak minded and selfish, but when it comes to women, only white women are like that. Latinas and Asian women are still doing fine for the most part.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vesuvius87 I also lived in Latin America for a few years, it's a totally different dating scene, although it's gradually becoming like the US because of the influence of the so called Western culture.

[RonsH]

Everything in your post is true. White girls aren't worth it anymore. Wow @Vesuvius87 is a white/light-skinned Latina. I don't see those types too often. That's interesting.

[Vesuvius87]

I've dumped and blocked that worthless user. I used to live in FL, US for years (was raised there since age 4) and that's where we met. Hopefully I have better luck with my current (2nd) relationship.

I'm glad to here you liked Latin America. The women are indeed more traditional and family oriented. Though I have to agree we're also delaying motherhood too for the reason the many young girls are interested in finishing college first. I was no where ready for kids when I was 20; didn't had any desires for them at the time. Now it's different.

[Vesuvius87]

@RonsH
Looks like someone needs to do some research on Mestizo. This is the link you can read it on:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mestizo
Different immigrants used to come to Peru and other Latin countries. I'm a mixture of European and Indigenous blood. My mom's paternal grandfather (my great-grandfather) was a tall European blue-eyed, blonde guy and my mother was his only white grandchild. It's obviously that migration over the years will produce Latinos of different colors and not the traditional darker skinned ones. Even they are a mixture too.

[baserunner611]

I don't get to cook I got to love

[Anonymous]

No, absolutely not.

[Asker]

I really fell asleep during all this. I could've sworn that 5-10 years ago, things were normal and ok. I'm just shocked at their sudden complaints.

[Opinion Owner]

Well some things have changed.