How do you feel about interracial relationships?

Question

I’m a white woman falling for a black guy. This guy treats me better than any guy has ever treated me. We are both in our late 20s. My mom is worried about others shaming and judging me, for being a white girl with a black guy… Is it really that bad?

NamerOfStars · Accepted Answer

Well, it IS possible that you'll encounter people bigoted that way- sad to say, it hasn't gone away and probably never will. But few of them are brave enough to say anything; the most you'll likely get is the odd raised eyebrow. Of course, that's here in the States; it might be different elsewhere. Then again, what's going to make that attitude change, if not you? Every standing social prejudice that's ever been rejected has been overcoming by someone defying it, and inspiring others to do the same.

As an added bonus, you'll learn VERY fast who the jackasses are, which makes them easy to avoid.

Rob59692 · Accepted Answer

Lol, I thought people were over this? I’m Mexican American guy, and I’ve dated white, black Indian, and Asian women before. Just because someone looks a bit different, we’re all still the same. Plus, your age range is 25-29, I think you’re old enough to make your own decisions, ma’am. I think it’s always funny to me when people assume a certain race’s/ethnicity’s stereotypes.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The only reason why I stare and others do is because of BBC porn and stuff.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

I mean it will be a big deal to a lot of guys. Many white girls go for a walking stereotype thug rapper weed dealer black man. Thats mental issue level. So i hope thats not you. But how do i know what her ex is like? I just assume the worst and generally avoid it. Now if i know he's normal then i dont really care. Just unfortunately thats not typical.

But yes you will be judged the rest of your life one way or another by some people. So I don't know.

MCheetah · Answer

I don't even think of them as "interracial relationships." So obviously, I approve of them.

Anonymous · Answer

As a white man, I prefer going IR for the following reasons:

#1 I love Asian women, life showed me they're really incredible, pretty, smart, good natured and they make the best partners a man can have.

#2 I kinda look down on white women, I think they're low value, too annoying, they make inferior girlfriends/wives and we white men should strive for better. That said, it's expected that I'm a hugeeeeeee IR enthusiast on my dating life.

Browneye57 · Answer

If you have to ask then you're simply not ready.  Tell us why YOU care what ANYBODY thinks. That's the bigger question.

HeartFullOfGlue · Answer

They're cool  My parents are in one so I'd be weird if I didn't support it

TrillXHippy · Answer

I’m here because of it, I have brothers and sisters because of it. I feel like I just don’t care

gangs_and_guns · Answer

Love doesn't have color

pinkmoon09 · Answer

I think that if you're happy you should go for it!

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Depends on the couple.

zagor · Answer

They're very common so don't worry about it.

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