What do you think about interracial relationships?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

As a man who has had three such relationships - one with a Japanese gal, the others with African-American women - I certainly have no objection. That said, my own experience was not without some pain.

I had met an African-American woman through work. She was not a colleague but worked for a lobbying firm that worked with my office. To me she was an extremely attractive woman and she had the most infectious laugh.

We dated about three times and had sex on the night of the third date and she stayed the night at my place. It was excellent sex, this notwithstanding that it was our first time together, and seeing her naked the first time - probably needless to say - gave me an instant erection.

Things were great and even though interracial dating was not then as common as it is now we were both extremely comfortable with each other and it really caused no issues. I was pretty sure that I was falling in love and she asked me to move in with her - which surprised me a bit, but she liked her place and it was bigger.

Then she got pregnant. I was a little surprised at first but was then over the moon with happiness. I wanted that baby and she did too.

Then she began to have second thoughts and told me she was thinking of having an abortion. I begged her not to and even told her that I would adopt the baby and she would not have to be responsible for him/her or see us ever again.

She seemed to relent after a bit and then one day I went to her house with more of my stuff. I kissed her and she did not respond. Then I bent down to her tummy - as was my habit - and said "Hi baby. This is your daddy and I love you."

She stopped me. Told me to forget as she had an abortion and wanted me out of the house. We argued - though less than you might expect - I grabbed my stuff, went out to my car and cried.

To this day I miss that baby - and my current girlfriend and I have been together for 11 years and have three children now - more than words can say. I only wish I could hold him/her and tell him/her how sorry I am that I failed as a father. It hurts to this day.

Afterward, as noted, I dated a Japanese woman and one other African-American woman and we had good relationships and generally good sex. I enjoyed it but the relationships did not last. I blame myself as I ran hot and cold and it took me a long time to get over what happened. (In the Japanese woman's case, it actually ended because she decided to move back to Japan.)

In all three cases, the relationships were great and the women impressive. However, in all truth, try as I might - and I do try - I can never fully forgive the first woman for what she did to my baby.

mstbooblover · Accepted Answer

Basically I don't think anything about interracial relationships. All men and women of any race or origin display the same physical features. Biologically it seems positive for the descendants by mixing genes of very different human origins. The real problems are culture related, and not physical.

Labokachulaa · Accepted Answer

I used to be very encouraging about the idea of people stepping outside of their comfort zones, but I was in a interracial relationship for over 5 years and it's not all peaches and cream. It takes a lot of work and self discipline. You have to realize that although there's lots of people who support it, there's also the ones who are against it. I've had more hate than I've had support in mine and unfortunately, I was very young when I got into the relationship and it took a HUGE toll on it for a few years. The people who were against it said VERY hurtful and hateful things and it took a HUGE blow at my self esteem. One of the things that I'll never forget is, I was asked, "do you not know any better?" "That's such a stupid thing to do." "You're supposed to keep your bloodline strong, not go around mixing it." That came from people who were regular church going people and it changed my view not only on interracial dating, but also religion.. I will always support it, but I always tell people to go in with no expectations and to not forget what we're told about others. Not everyone is open minded and kind hearted.

mandyfire98 · Accepted Answer

I've been in interracial relationships and to me it's natural as any relationship. If you like someone you like someone, race doesn't matter.

Weapon77 · Answer

It's better for our cultural exchanges and our offspring in the long run and also often in the short run. In my case, I'd love to date Asians

ArtemisSilver · Answer

Doesn't bother me, mixed kids usually look pretty healthy. That said, I am not a fan of immigration to the point of cultural erasure either. All things in moderation.

boggboss · Answer

Was always gonna be a thing for me being mixed race

sheikalana · Answer

I am mixed raced myself and always been in interracial relationships all my life.

Jennz6 · Answer

I am in a relationship like that now and I love ❤️ it

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I love them I'm the product of an interracial marriage. What do you think about interracial relationships

Wicked_Witch · Answer

It’s the same as any other type of relationship in my book.

Havthrills · Answer

I have no issues with it. I know a few that are in them. Some in my family.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know why in 2022 why it's even necessary to talk about it. Like who really cares! 2 people make eachother that's all that matters.

Rudon00 · Answer

I have no problem with it and I don't mind dating outside my culture.

Jerre · Answer

They don’t bother me at all. I have dated many women of different colors and nationalities.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

I dont have a problem with it

AngelOfLight258 · Answer

If it wasn't for them I wouldn't be here.

Kareem_z21 · Answer

Nothing wrong with it

mT2359 · Answer

Passionate in bedroom

Guardian45 · Answer

I'm 100% in favor. I have been in multiple ones!

Passing_by · Answer

Whatever floats people's boat.

Erron_Black · Answer

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Kelly6 · Answer

Nothing

BLP11520 · Answer

No problem

Anonymous · Answer

dont like

Anonymous · Answer

They're okay

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