I'm 22. I'm forced to choose between a 22-year-old girl who doesn't like me and a 27-year-old mom who does. Who do I select?

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

The 22-year-old in question owns a white 2022 Ford Mustang GT Premium (automatic), and the 27-year-old in question is a "trap mom" (as she calls herself) who owns a green 2021 Dodge Charger R/T Scat Pack narrow-body (automatic). Both girls have mostly guys (who also own such fast cars) taking photoshoots of them around their cars. They're very active on Instagram.

The 22-year-old never gave me ANY attention. She gave ONE comment of mine a like, that's it. She's younger than me by NEARLY a month. We're both 2000 babies!

The 27-year-old however was free to dm me (I was flirty with her and her car, she loved that), like most of my comments, even gave me a shoutout. But HOLY CRAP, I thought she didn't like me at first.

I don't have a car of my own. The 22-year-old lives in Florida, and the 27-year-old lives in California (*but* too damn far away from where I live).

Neither girl follows me back, but the 27-year-old "trap mom" liked many of my posts as I gave her some attention.

I also tend to give unique and funny compliments that stand out. I don't just say a girl is beautiful or gorgeous anymore, that's some "nice guy" shit obviously.

Honestly, I never had a girlfriend before and I am really looking to get back on Tinder and Bumble so that God can find the right girl for me.

I'm honestly unwilling to date a girl who drives a fast car either way (especially a high-performance V8 muscle car). I'm worried she might do dangerous activities or be a bad influencer not just on me but on my family.

I'm more into girls that drive basic cars like the Civic, Accord, Corolla, Camry. F*ck Nissan and the pre-2009 Hyundai/Kia tbh.

22-year-old

27-year-old

Updates

1 y

Reason why I say "this" (the last two paragraphs above) is because I know for a fact my first car is going to be something reliable and decent, likely 10-20 years old. I come from a slightly lower-class family (not poor though). I work part-time, I have SNAP, SSI, got kicked out of college, and have had enough of BS. Now I just want to settle for a girl who is either exactly on my level or slightly below. I believe in being her boss, not her backseat driver.

Updates

1 y

I live in California TOO but in a very different city far away from where she lives... that 27yo

[Mistylynne8899]

To much stuff about cars. Who cares? That cars not going to make a difference in the relationship. To be honest neither one sounds good. You need a more serious mature partner. It sounds immature and not that interested. Who do you like? Why? Why does it have to be those 2? I wouldn't like someone who's not so interested in me regardless of age. So it would be the 27 year old. But it sounds all too superficial if you ask me. You need some more important qualities to look for in a woman and stick to those. Make a list, what do you want? And no it doesn't matter what car they drive. That'd weird lol.

[Alwayreckles93]

22 year old woman is a godly digger. Honestly the 27 year old looks way better and much younger looking then the stupid 22 year old.

[MCheetah]

Neither one. Wait for someone who actually wants you and won't make you be a cuck for her kids. Also, Tinder and Bumble are sh*t.

Also, if you're on Food Stamps/SNAP (EBT card), then you're *poor.* I was on SNAP for five years. Nothing shameful about it.

Just based on looks though, I'd say the 22 year old is much prettier.

[Zolly99999]

Take the 27 year old.. ford owners are crazy people. Dodge owners are the best people on the planet.

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Amen! MoPar and imports only here too :) FUCK ford and gm and their government incentives

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

not a single mustang or camaro owner I met was polite... chally and chargy owners chill asf, we understand swagger

[Zolly99999]

Absolutely... I own a 2018 challenger hellcat plum crazy purple.. i get mad respect!

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Yessir!🔥💪

[Alwayreckles93]

Thanks I own a dodge truck. lol

[Zolly99999]

@Alwayreckles93 so you are awesome too 😁😁😁

[OlderAndWiser]

1. You are "forced" to choose? How are you being forced?

2. Choose them for what? A marriage proposal? Pen pals?

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

It's just a trivia question. Don't take things personal

[OlderAndWiser]

You mean it's a "hypothetical" question?

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Yeah

[Staximus]

Get a better job, stop being a bum, and don't worry about your internet sweethearts and find a girl that lives in your town

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

You hiding in the closet buddy?

[driven159]

First off are you judging the cars or the woman just because you have a fast car doesn't mean you drive dangerously; I see a lot of old farts in Hondas corollas Camrys that should not be on the road how many accidents do you see with vans and trucks get a clue

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

They literally upload videos and brag about doing burnouts and drifting and street racing on public roads. Both of them!! I hate that shit

[driven159]

then way are you even choosing one how about none find what you want not what you have to no one has to pick

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

I just don't want to f*ck a girl that has already been piped by hundreds of guys who own even faster more expensive cars. My first car cannot be a fast car because my family is very strict and religious and don't believe in owning fast cars

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

I'd rather be gay than date a prostitute

[driven159]

they are out there you just need to find one that is your kinds of woman you want there are so many out there

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Should it BOTHER me that these two girls ONLY follow guys that own SUPER fast cars like the pos gas guzzling Scat Pack, Hellcat, GT, Shelby, 6.2-liter Camaros? I feel like a piece of shit sometimes

[FunkyMonkee]

Third choice, find someone else.

Why would you want to go with someone that doesn't like you?

If being a MILFer bothers you, there're a LOT more women out there to pick from!

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Honestly, I think a girl that owns a fast car just to brag about it bothers me more than a MILFer. I prefer a girl to be lower level than me if not exact

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Think of it like this, guys are like dogs, girls are like cats. I like a little bit of rebelliousness, but not so much dominance, aggression, masculinity, negligence... I'd rather a girl be a cat (pussy) than a dog (bitch) or a donkey (ass)

[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah, flash-car-girl sounds plastic.

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

ESPECIALLY when she follows guys that own flashy cars themselves but not me who doesn't really have a car

[FunkyMonkee]

I wouldn't bother with her!

[Redstang88]

So you’re forced to choose between 2 girls you haven’t met and aren’t interested in you? Trying to understand your logic here 🧐

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

These girls literally have LOTS of followers on Instagram and get guys complimenting on them

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Ever since COVID pretty much everything has been online with a few exceptions

[Redstang88]

Yeah, so what makes you think they want you?

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

When I liked about 20 of each girl's pics, only the 27yo gave me a shoutout, the 22yo gave a few guys shoutouts but not me. I think the 22yo is pickier and only wants to talk to guys who actually own a car

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

pics and vids*

[Redstang88]

You’re reading way too much into that

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Your mentality is that of a 12 year old prepubscent boy with Axe body spray

[Redstang88]

You’re the one obsessing over two strangers that like a couple of your Instagram posts 🤷‍♂️

[Redstang88]

And didn’t you just warn us against dating “influencers” or car chicks?

[ChrisMike1919]

I still don't see the reason why you're "forced". And what is this all about cars? You choose someone for their car?

[bamesjond0069]

They are both ugly asf and sound like shit. Meet a girl at church or the library or community college. Anywhere else is bust basically.

[notwoke]

is this for real? In any case stay away from fat women like these. Imagine what these women will look like at 40. Also, never raise another man's child, thats a top 3 rule of life for men

[Texaskid1]

Take the 27 year old. She has a nice big booty.

[msc545]

Just get your own car of your choice and date that.

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

I don't have that much money and the SSI/SNAP that my mom put me on won't allow me to go further

[msc545]

buy a used car

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

I don't buy or drive cars for religious reasons. Not allowed to before I get married

[msc545]

That is sort of unusual. What religion is that?

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

We're Christians

[msc545]

who made up the stuff about driving?

[MannyFrs]

the mom but only if you can borrow her car and if she swallows

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I like the 27-year-old she is gorgeous

[exitseven]

This is a joke, right?

[zagor]

So... you haven't met either in person?

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Nowadays everything is online. It's impossible to meet a girl in person these days UNLESS we match on dating apps and even then I must hold a high status or look like Brad Pitt

[zagor]

You're still young enough to hang out on college campuses.

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

I literally got expelled from my own campus

[zagor]

I hope it wasn't for harassing women...

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Lol no

[Graci_e]

What?

[Staximus]

@Graci_e don't engage this bum

[Gangactivities911]

Neither it sounds like

[scott04sa22]

I’m single for life! Lol

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

The fuck does that have to do with what I am asking?

[scott04sa22]

@GirlsAskGuys

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

My advice, neither.

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Why not?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Girl number doesn't like you, so no point in wasting your time.

Girl number 2, brings heavy baggage with a kid and an ex that will always be in her life because she has a kid by him.

Her ex will always keep in contact with her i. e. calling and texting each other which can spring up jealousy by her ex and you don't want to get caught up in that. Can turn ugly real quick.

[Joker_]

choose both

[KrakenAttackin]

Neither.