Why am I so content with being single?

[HappyWoman34]

[Abhishek4444]

It's your choice and no one can force as there are billions of souls and each soul thinks different than other after death the bad ones go to nark and the good ones go to swarg and you are a good soul so don't worry you would go to swarg after death as I have seen your questions and replies on gag it is full of innocence good luck and I will pray for you that Lord Shiva will always protect you from bad people as bad people always changes good people as I was good before but due to bad people I changed a lot I don't have any emotions for bad people I will not help bad people even if they are dying but in the case of good people I can even donate my body parts to save their life

[JacobJordan]

Because you are 35 and haven't realized that you have about 50 years left on average 70+ if lucky/unlucky (depending on view) and 50-70+ years of being alone is a long ass time

[Anonymous]

After sex abuse as a little girl I went through a very promiscuous stage in my teens that my therapist has told me is very common. I slept with almost every guy who wanted me letting myself be put in some very humiliating degrading situations.
This got me into a lot of compromising situations as a young woman and there is definitely a strong stigma!

I know guys see me as damaged goods and I have been told that I am not “wife material” I only say this because not all promiscuous girls totally chose this but still have to live with the consequences.

[HappyWoman34]

That sucks. There are guys who’ll be with women with a promiscuous past (I’ve been with eleven men). I’ve not been attacked as a little girl however, by a sex offender. I can’t know what that was like. My suggestion and I may be right or wrong, is not to tell anyone until you know them really well. I don’t know, you might’ve already done that. Not everyone is narrow minded. I once fancied a guy who’d been raped. He was really vocal about it and I saw him for who he was, not ‘a rape victim.’ I mean of course I felt bad for him and wanted to kill whoever hurt him, but I saw him as an individual.

[HappyWoman34]

I have a few stigmas from being a high functioning schizophrenic and being unable to work. Are there guys who see me as untouchable? Absolutely. I’ve met those who unfairly label me too. But one day I found my friend group and a guy who likes me for me. He stuck around. So did my friends. My point being that you’re not alone and there are other people in this big world who won’t stigmatise you. It’s up to you, as it was up to me, to not give up and to find those people.

[electromagnetic]

You’ll have to do some internal soul searching for the answer but as long as it makes you happy, others around will support you.

[DextroShade]

Because you aren't yet at the age where health problems start and you will need help. When that starts happening to you I doubt you will be so content.

[exitseven]

It must be because you are comfortable with yourself

[CriticalCatDad]

Because being in a relationship isn't for everyone. I am also content being single

[Jennz6]

I’m single too and I enjoy being independent

[Zlantur2]

If that's what you like, then good for you. No one can blame or judge you.

[MsBrie]

I dont know maybe you like being indy?

[mistershy94]

coz you love yourself 🥰

[jahaims]

Relationships are a lot of effort

[Twalli]

You can work on yourself