Why am I single?

[Anonymous]

Well you see im 18 and never had a boyfriend or someone that i could be intimate with in a way of doing cute stuff together, and im not ugly either, my body's fine and the guy's im surrounded with usually end up confessing to me, assuming my love life is very active and wild (when in reality it's just non existent) or i just notice those subtle flirting they do to see if i follow it, don't get me wrong i might sound like an egocentric pick me but im really not (as none of you know me im trying to explain everything the best i can so please bear with my poor explanation) so, well i don't know what's going on or how to fix it

[Anonymous]

It's not easy, for anyone. But in my opinion women need to be approaching guys as well and not waiting for them to. Especially if YOU like someone. It shows CONFIDENCE (which is attractive right? You like it in men), not "desperation" like women feel like.

[Asker]

Actually i do take the initiative most of the times but it doesn't go where i want yk?, im not really desperate to fuck i can just touch myself and I'm as good as new, i want a relationship not a fuck buddy

[Opinion Owner]

I hear ya. It's just hard these days. Very few even want to take the risk it seems.

[UniquelyBasic]

Guys confess to you so whats wrong with those guys? Not attractive or what? Seems men are giving you attention and advances but you're not taking it.

[Asker]

Well those confessions are usually just a "hah yeah i wanted to fuck you" or "you're really hot", you know i think there's more than that, like they just befriend me for that? I don't want someone like that

[one1wild00]

Interesting dilemma, sounds like you've had guys hitting on you but aren't seeing it. DM if you like.

[TheFlak38]

Think about the thousands of guys you friend zone for the sake of your astronomical standards.

[Asker]

My astromical standards are just a guy who doesn't just want to fuck with me, smells good, has good higiene and doesn't fool me around, for me that's just basic.

[TheFlak38]

this type of guys is invisible to your eyes you dumb bitch.

[TenkRealist]

Well if they confessed, why didn't you say yes?

[Asker]

They're confessions we're just empty and superficial like "oh i like cause you're pretty" or because i like your bodie yk

[TenkRealist]

Well "because you're pretty" is a fine reason (if there are other things too) but yeah did people actually say "because of your body?". I appreciate the honesty but still...😅

[Anonymous]

That why you are intelligent