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Would you rather peak in college, or would you rather peak after college?

Peaking in college: Plenty of friends, crazy and wild parties, everyone wants to have as much fun as possible, traveling to exotic locations and/or plenty of recreation areas, and befriending, dating, and/or having free and consensual sex with plenty of hot women (especially those wearing skimpy outfits that reveal cleavage, midriff, thighs, and possibly buttocks, such as bikinis, sports bras and gym shorts, crop tops with short shorts), and overall, having tons of fun and moments that can never be replicated after college.

Peaking after college: Almost, if not no friends, no parties, everyone is miserable, boring, and soulless, only going to office cubicles and grocery stores, and never being able to talk to, let alone befriend hot women (to make matters even worse, no non-rich post-college women even wear skimpy clothes anymore, even in appropriate environments such as gyms or beaches, and all of such women exclusively wear outfits that cover everything but their head and hands).

Where would you rather peak? In college or afterwards?

This is the first serious relationship I had and it ended about a month ago. She had always been very nice and generous with me from the day we met in person (we live in different states). We never intended to date but one thing lead to another. Two months after that she broke up with me facing away from me and crying. We talked for three or so hours afterwards. She gave a variety of reasons, none of them directly blaming me and talked about how much she relied on me and cares about me since we've met.

She said she wanted to remain friends and I did too. She's been miserable the past few weeks on top of her depression Recently whenever I think of her I go through a cycle of happiness, sadness/bitterness, guilt for feeling that way for someone who did so much for me even as a friend, and weakness for not having better control of my emotions. I feel like I still owe her my friendship because she's done so much for me. Do I?