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I know i have made mistakes in the past with this situation and not being completely honest and hesitant and started the sexting but i've owned up to my mistake with this situation thats been almost 3 years. The guy tells me that he wants a relationship for the longest time and sex is important to him but he hardly asked me about myself. Sex is important to him and thats what tends to be our conversation/ joking around/ somewhat flirting. He would tell me he wants a relationship whenever i said I think he just want sex from me and he's going to hit it and quit it. He has told me multiple times he wants a relationship and isn't going to ditch me or would say "thats something you have to find out". His answers would change, one minute he says one thing and the next he says something else. Being manipulative

Points the finger at me which again I acknowledged my mistakes and apologised. Seemed like he was hurt and i felt bad. Made me feel bad/guilty. He played the victim. He never truly gave me a solid answer and hardly knew much about him besides a few things. He would say disrespectful things to me. He would agree things just to agree with me etc. Recently I told him tell me which scenario i gave him was true and he said that he just wanted to use me for sex and just said he wanted a relationship. When i asked him to delete the pic/ told him to delete it he was like "I might of not deleted it" and would just joke about it and then finally told me he deleted the explicit pic.

In the past when I dated, I basically tried to save the person I was dating and fix all of their issues. ( At least most of them) and honestly these guys treated me like trash and our relationship was quite terrible since I got nothing in return. I mean, I know it's selfish to say that but I'm just being honest. When you date someone is it really just a mission to fix them and be the perfect partner in your opinion?