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A friend of mine has a fiancé who goes to parties without him since he would otherwise just awkwardly stand there. So, she dresses sexy with some other girls to go, and she said she can’t have fun at a party without getting drunk. In a previous question I asked if he should be worried about her dressing this way-not that she is going to ever cheat-but for the reasons for why she feels the need to dress slutty. Could she not just wear cute skinny jeans with some cute boots and a pretty tank top? When pressured on this by her fiancée, she says it’s hard to explain and that parties are the only place really to let go and express yourself in that sort of way. A man in the comments said “most girls dress for other girls”. What do you think?

Assume you had thought your wife was straight. Would you react any differently than if it was with a man? Would you be relieved? Would you feel more inclined to forgive her, and would you possibly find it hot? Or would you be just as angry, if not more so because she hid her attraction to women from you? This kind of thing happened in a movie I watched recently. The wife came home late one night, her husband didn't beat around the bush and was waiting for her, and he asked her who she was with. She let it be known she was with somebody else, without revealing that it was a girl, and he was rightly pissed off. They were planning on getting a divorce, she was kicked out of the house, etc.. And then a few days later they met up because she wanted to explain everything. She told him it was with a girl, and his anger just evaporated. She was instantaneously forgiven, and I believe it actually turned him on, because they shared a pretty passionate kiss after that. I was completely baffled. I mean, I know a lot men are really into the girl on girl thing, but it's shocking to me that such a blatant display of disloyalty and untrustworthiness could be excused. Regardless of who it was with, regardless of why she did it, she still cheated on you. Really curious about this.