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Please don’t judge me you might think I’m an idiot after reading this. I started seeing this girl at the beginning of COVID. We ended up living together because we wanted to be together during the lockdown. Recently I’ve realized she’s not right for me. Her behaviour is bad and she curses and swears at me. Yet she can’t handle it when I give it back to her. Our chemistry and sex life is going downhill. Even if we’re not having sex the chemistry should be strong no matter what.

She used to complain that we don’t go out and do stuff. Now that quarantine is over we’re going out all the time. We’ve gone out almost everyday this week. And all we’ve done is fight.

I know I need to get away from her but my emotions are so deep in her it’ll kill me to just walk away. She’s like a knife deep in my flesh that I can’t yank on, but need to pull gradually. Any suggestions on how to emotionally step back?

We complain about abortion, marriage rates, promiscuity, failing nuclear families, cheaters, divorce rates, and child birth rates. Promiscuity can be directly linked to all of these issues. Of course nobody likes to be told they can’t do something and in today’s world where the rights of a few are prioritized over the needs of the many and new open ideas are overly idolized I doubt such changes would be made much less accepted…

I’m going to counter some arguments I see coming up front.

won't people will just hide their having sex?
Sure just like they hide the fact they murder and avoid taxes. This will lead to lower abortion rates for sure even if it’s only one or two.

Back alley abortions will become more prominent.
Even our most agreed upon laws get broken fairly regularly. Murder, rape, theft, assault; these are committed every day. We need accountability. You choose sex a baby is a possibility. You shirk your responsibility and choose a dangerous procedure that could cost you your life. When someone drinks and gets behind the wheel then kills a kid it’s tragic. When they sober up their devastated. So then do we forgo punishment because he’s sorry? No we hold him responsible so he and everyone else witnessing his situation avoids the situation that got him here. This is accountability.

Well what if a woman gets raped!
Yes the possibility of rape victims being further victimized by this law is a problem but that’s not something we considered when #believeallwomen became a thing. A law like this would reduce the claims of rape and actual rapes by reducing the focus of sex in our society.

I don’t want to be told I can’t have sex if I want; its my right!
Your told you cannot do many things you accept but may not agree with. Half the country believes you have to abandon your property if someone breaks into your home and you can run away the other half thinks they should be able to protect their property with lethal force if necessary so how is this different?