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Ok, this is a very serious question because girls are born and bred, instinctively to give off, both body and indirect verbal, signals that we expect others around us to understand. And for the most part other girls will know them immediately when given off by another girl. It's sort of like an antenna that picks up an alert signal and interprets it's meaning with no need of fan fare between the female species.

Now with guys, it's a different story. Guys are wired differently so they need someone to walk up to them and grab them by the shoulders, look them straight in the eyeballs and say..."Ok, here is exactly what I am thinking and what I am wanting from you right now!" Guys think they are in heaven when they find a girl like this, and voila' ... like pulling a rabbit out of a hat, whatever you want, in many cases, will be yours!

Now, reality sets in... here is what the guy gets instead...HIM: "What would you like for your birthday sweetie?", HER: "Oh nothing, I'm ok", HIM: "Are you sure, I mean you must want something?", HER: Nope, I can't think of anything, don't worry about it, honey, I don't need a thing". Now another girl hearing this would be laughing hysterically.

But here is what happens with the guy... her birthday comes and guess what occurs when you have got her nothing? ...HELLO! ARE YOU THERE GUYS? ...and don't tell me "Nothing will happen". If you think that, you are in for a big surprise!!

Here's what she meant..."I shouldn't have to tell you to get me something, or even what that something should be, you should do it no matter what to prove to me that you love me regardless". In other words, the whole thing was a test! HELLO AGAIN? ARE YOU THERE GUYS?

Are there exceptions to the rule? ... of course, not all girls send out these signals and not all guys fail to be able to read them. But for the most part THAT IS THE RULE, AND DON'T FORGET IT if you know what's good for you... lol

What are your experiences in sending and receiving signals?