Search Results: making difficult decisions

Ok, so my boyfriend works for UPS. He makes 74,000 a year (but is somehow always broke? AND maxed out his credit card with a $15,000 limit within two months?). He has been offered a position at the headquarters in Atlanta with more responsibility and a lot of traveling, but the same pay he gets currently. From what I understand, the cost of living is higher there than in Memphis, so proportionally speaking, he will actually be making less. Plus, here in Memphis he has a roommate who pays half the rent, and he still is barely making it somehow. He will be stretched even thinner in Atlanta. But he is hell-bent on going and threw this on me all of a sudden without discussing it with me. I feel like he is acting impulsively and foolishly. I am starting to resent him for leaving me with the difficult decision between staying here & ending our relationship (I refuse to do long-distance) or going with him & probably dealing with a crappy financial situation.

I have recently gotten accepted into U of M, and I've just gotten an internship at a hip local newspaper/magazine company, which could be a gateway into a journalism career should I choose to go in that direction. Journalism is something I'm interested in, mostly because the English language is my main expertise. It's either that or be an English teacher. If I were to move to be with him, it would probably screw my chances of becoming a journalist, especially since I would be cutting my ties with my company. However, moving probably wouldn't hurt my chances if I decided to be a teacher. Either way, I still have to continue with school and if I moved, I'd have to find a job to fund living expenses and school.

I live with my dad and I don't pay rent. I have never lived with my boyfriend, much less on my own, and now all of a sudden he wants me to live with him in an unfamiliar city. Admittedly, my brother lives in Atlanta as well, so at least I would still have some sort of family tie there.

So what should I do?