Search Results: putting off a serious relationship

I'm 19 she's 17. may not be in order

- I recently developed feelings for one of my closest female friends and she replied "Idk, not really tryna do anything since i just broke up". (she got out of her first serious EVER relationship a month ago) Week later we got drunk and made out, she told me she doesn't regret the making out
- One time we were discussing drama about her and her best friend, and she said randomly: "I know ill always be friends with her, just like you and me. not saying we would never date or anything though"
- Everytime I bring up dating she keeps saying "I dont know". I eventually confronted her and said "Listen I promise things won't be awkward between us, i just want an honest answer. do you not like me like that?" and she replied "I'm telling the truth, its not that. its just that i dont know. i just can't commit right now"
- One weekend we got into a HUGE argument and didn't talk for 5 days. The next time we hung out I said "I bet i killed our chances of dating" and she replied "Eh probably not"
- One time i told her "You are so confusing. most girls just say any polite rejection" then i told her "You must feel something for me? you won't reject me for some reason" and she replied "i think you're over analyzing. i dont know what the future holds. if we date, then awesome. if not, then oh well. i just go with the flow in life"
- I noticed she doesn't really respond to my flirting either in person or text. She kinda just goes "oh okay". I then texted her one day (in regards to that) "Lately I just feel like I'm putting in a lot of effort for someone that's not really acknowledging my feelings at all" and she replied "At the moment yes. I acknowledge your feelings but I don't want anything right now"

I know i bugged her a little too much, i actually apologized to her for all the bugging pretty recently. So my questions are why does she kinda shrug off my flirting? And do i have a chance? some of the things she said make it seem like i do

So let suppose a girl was a 10/10 and she had an ex-bf who she dated for 6 years from college to her present age 28. This guy is her first pick for a mate (alpha genetics, money, charismatic, smart). However, there comes a point in her life in her late 20's when she is seeing all her friends getting married, the wedding pics on FB and people she grew up with having babies and she wants that too. So she constantly pestering her man to put a ring on her and that just drives him up a wall and makes him not want to do it even more. What happens usually is either the man gets fed up at her constant nagging e and ultimatums and dumps her or something in her head goes off that this guy doesn't want a serious relationship and commitment from me and she drops him. Real Life example: "Ye, she's desperately trying to get married and have a kid before 30. And if he doesn't put a ring on it, she will leave and find a beta that will do it quickly (probably lower value than your brother)." Response: Funny thing is, this happened to another friend of mine. 10 years dating, he and his ex were approaching 30 as well. They broke it off, she found another dude within months and got engaged. Following year they had a kid." So they break up. What many women do is they start looking for guys who they think will commit within a year and this usually means lowering on looks and putting more emphasis on other things like job and status for provider qualities. This can either be a totally new guy she doesn't know or a guy she kept in the friendzone for all these years and who has done pretty good for himself. So she comes to you. She's a 7/10 now. Her youthful glow is gone, she has wrinkles and got a little fatter but she is still an attractive women with good genetics. She is the best looking girl you ever got a chance to date and now wants to date you because she thinks your the best man available to her that will commit within a year. Would you be ok with this?