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My boyfriend asked me for the third chance. He got the second chance and he did nothing better. Does he deserve another chance?

My boyfriend broke up with me four days ago. The day before my phone died and he thought I was ignoring him and had a panic attack. Thought I didn’t want him anymore, was sick of him or didn’t want him. I said that wasn’t the case I cared for him and kept reassuring him. The next day he was suppose to stay the night for the first time in 7 months. I still live with my parent and they just allowed it. I’ve been going down to his place (his parents place) every second weekend instead. We are long distance I feel like this was part of the reason and he wanted to move in after 5 months of dating and asked for three months I said I wasn’t ready maybe in a year. The day of the break up he said I made him happy, I was a great girlfriend, cared deeply for me and he seen a future with me. He wasn’t sure he was in love with me. We talked four days later and he said he thinks he is surprising his emotions I said I did the same in before the break up I was scared to say I love you. I offered to move down in September and make it work we went back and forth he said he didn’t wanna take the risk because we are unsure of where we are as people and didn’t think we could handle the extra stress of moving out, focusing on our relationship and extra responsibilities. He agreed with me I needed to live my life more before settling down and he had to deal with his demons. He said he misses me too and we started to carry on casually for a bit afterwards but agreed to give each other some space (2-3 days to think). Do we have a chance to get back together? I love him so much and don’t want to lose him and agreed to be his friend told him I wanted to be more and I’ll always love him and be there for him. He said he would rule out dating again, he cared deeply and he’ll always be there for me.

Do we have a chance? 🥺

Or is that friendship permanently killed? And that person will never trust you ever again nor like you at all?

My boyfriend's adoptive mother was the one talking behind my back for several months. I was friends with that lady. Many things happened and supposedly she's sorry. I'm still hurt that instead of telling me in my face what she doesn't agree or what I'm doing wrong, she smiled in my face and gossiped nasty things about me to family member, her friends and random strangers.

Is it worth giving a person like that a second chance? At this time, my image of that lady is that she's a backstabbing, fake person, a hypocrite, a liar. My boyfriend and someone else claims she is remorseful though and would like to start over. Can that be restored?