Hi! So, I'm a M28 and she's F35 and it's been almost 2 weeks since our breakup.
But we're still friends on Facebook, follow each other on Instagram, Spotify and Whatsapp. But, I've noticed that she hasn't posted a status on WA for several days. It's either that, or she blocked me so I can't see her pictures and stuff in there and she used to post daily in there.
My question here is... why do it? We're no longer together. If I'm just a number in her list, why hide stuff from me? I'm not gonna break NC. So... I don't get it. Isn't that "give me" importance? I'm living my life and improving myself. I only deleted her and our pictures together. I never lied or cheated on her like she did to me. It's on her. I was a good boyfriend.
- Background:
We met on Tinder a few months ago and hit it off right away. Texting everyday, everything in common, we had a connection, plans, dreams the whole nine yards.
Then after weeks we started dating, became boyfriend and girlfriend and had sex on our second date. Then, after weeks of living the dream. She said she needed to tell me something, a guy she used to love came back and asked her to give him a chance and she was confused, she also got laid off her job and her mom is getting a surgery this weekend.
So, she was basically letting me know, she was gonna do "the right thing" and leave me for this other guy. I wished her well and went No Contact. She made her mind, got to let her go like a man.
But, I'm just curious. My closests friends and I have a bet right now.
They say that she will come back around in 1 to 3 months or so.
One of them says that she will realise her mistake and try to fix things. Doubt it.
Others say she might want some sexual encounters with me again and that's it.
I say, she's moved on and I'll never see or hear from her again. I made my peace with this.
She does the monkey-branching thing so, I don't expect her to ever come back.
What do you girls think? Why hide things? Will she come back?
But we're still friends on Facebook, follow each other on Instagram, Spotify and Whatsapp. But, I've noticed that she hasn't posted a status on WA for several days. It's either that, or she blocked me so I can't see her pictures and stuff in there and she used to post daily in there.
My question here is... why do it? We're no longer together. If I'm just a number in her list, why hide stuff from me? I'm not gonna break NC. So... I don't get it. Isn't that "give me" importance? I'm living my life and improving myself. I only deleted her and our pictures together. I never lied or cheated on her like she did to me. It's on her. I was a good boyfriend.
- Background:
We met on Tinder a few months ago and hit it off right away. Texting everyday, everything in common, we had a connection, plans, dreams the whole nine yards.
Then after weeks we started dating, became boyfriend and girlfriend and had sex on our second date. Then, after weeks of living the dream. She said she needed to tell me something, a guy she used to love came back and asked her to give him a chance and she was confused, she also got laid off her job and her mom is getting a surgery this weekend.
So, she was basically letting me know, she was gonna do "the right thing" and leave me for this other guy. I wished her well and went No Contact. She made her mind, got to let her go like a man.
But, I'm just curious. My closests friends and I have a bet right now.
They say that she will come back around in 1 to 3 months or so.
One of them says that she will realise her mistake and try to fix things. Doubt it.
Others say she might want some sexual encounters with me again and that's it.
I say, she's moved on and I'll never see or hear from her again. I made my peace with this.
She does the monkey-branching thing so, I don't expect her to ever come back.
What do you girls think? Why hide things? Will she come back?
