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Search Results: dating system
Where are all the good dating sites/apps?
I used to use okcupid and had some success at getting dates with it (well, almost... most of the dates turned out to be with unknowingly fat, ugly women). I lost my virginity thanks to okcupid. Although, she was a 16 year...
HornyyEveryday
Xper 2 Age: 31 HIV: A Taboo With Many Misunderstandings!
Based on the answers I saw in this question What if a guy told you he was HIV positive? Would you date him? by Soulindub I decided to write this so we can clear up some things with scientific information about the so...
BlackRoseFairy
Explorer Age: 37 The magic Pill: casting a spell of deception
I (female) was in an abusive relationship turned marriage from 18 to 23. Within 6 months of leaving said relationship, I was assaulted. In less than a month, I became a statistic, a fugitive and a "survivor", or in some...
Anonymous
(30-35) Growing up with Autism (Asperger's Syndrome)
Disclaimer: This myTake is dedicated to people growing up with Asperger's syndrome, and since everyone's autism is different, this is only ONE example. I hope that other people with other types of Autism (or Asperger's as...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is there a reason why girls, women, look for leadership in guys, men? why are they instinctively or innately, want or expect to be led by their man?
overall, why do they want or expect leadership from us guys, men? I know people will say things like: "will knowing the answer change anything for you? Women aren't going to change, so you have two options: you can either...
Anonymous
(36-45) Dating with autism from a girl's perspective
Disclaimer: I was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome when I was eight years old and have been in therapy ever since. This myTake is an extension to @Lynx122 's myTake from 15 days ago: Dating with autism is not fun! I...
Anonymous
(18-24) What to do when someone you know is paranoid/delusional?
Have experience with a person who is paranoid and delusional... like they tell you some elaborate thing that in no way is true, but they totally believe it. Example is they are being tracked by these powerful people....
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Tony's Advice on Manhood
Tony's Advice on Manhood Introduction... I'm 26 years old, and I've had a lot of life experience. I've spent my life in the military, academia, the engineering world, and law enforcement. I've battled my health when I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, Had real feelings or everything was just “typical player”?
Man I’ve talked to and spent 50% of the month with due to his work/baby sent me 6 texts, phone apology, and in person apology Monday for being rude pressured by the baby mama who said she wanted to get back together after...
Sunflower1911
Xper 2 Age: 36 Was he just being friendly and ONLY using me? Or is he not telling truth about feelings?
A guy I’ve spent 50% of the month with due to his work/baby sent me 6 texts, phone apology, and in person apology Monday for being rude pressured by the baby mama who said she wanted to get back together after she found...
Anonymous
(36-45) Are Millennials in the US brilliant? Smarter than all previous generations?
Are millennials in the US brilliant because they want to change everything about the most successful country in the world? Do they know what they are doing or are they going to make of mess of it like they have their own...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Do you believe there is a need to confront a person about the reason why they ghosted you?
There is a lady I been talking to and she is younger than me. Maybe she has this idea about a relationship between a man and a woman, or casual friends or friends with benefits. I been telling her about a guy I am...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Ever wondered how dating works in a Communist country?
There are no restaurants, unless the state wants it so. You can't expect men to pay for women because thats too much bourgeois mentality. Proletarians dont date like that (according to the state mandated belief system)....
esotericstory
Guru Age: 31 How do men of my younger age deal with society's alleged sexism against them?
Wonder what young men in their 20s and 30s today are doing to deal with getting a raw deal in life, mostly just society-induced. I agree that men are supposed to be men too and be confident, but I also think they...
UncleJessieRabbit
Explorer Age: 34 Limitations of Dating Apps
1. Fake Profiles Everywhere I go now, there are so many fake accounts/bots. Not all apps have photo verification. It's not like it used to be, sadly. 2. Time Wasters Everywhere I go, a lot of people are "on it for a...
Mr_Kapstar
Xper 5 Age: 26 Why are so many men so quick to play a losing game?
I don't see the point in "approaching" or trying to win girls over. I don't want to play into a system where men try their best to impress a girl who has many different options and doesn't even try to be considerate to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why Guys Can't (WONT) Get A Girl Anymore
This is kind of response to my friend @Wowgirl30q 's article Why Guys Can't Get a Girl Anymore After I wrote this, i realized how long this was, but its a captivating read (i hope). Disclaimer: I know there is going...
Tdieseler
Guru Age: 36 Is the person asking for my phone number a catfish/scam?
In an onlinematchmaker/dating app/service, I have had some correspondence with someone over a few weeks. She now says she wants to phone text instead of using the built in message system. I was a bit wary as scams often...
jcbflyer
Xper 4 Age: 38 Online Dating: Men, how is the system flawed?
What part of the structure of the sites/apps cause you problems, and what do you wish the women on the other side of the screen would do differently?
KaitieSearching
Xper 6 Age: 28 Women are Patriarchal too
Introduction Both men and women lament about how much of a man’s world this is: whether it be unequal political, economic, or social circumstances; one of the most surprising observations in my adult life, however, is...
elew4too
Explorer Age: 35 