Is there a reason why girls, women, look for leadership in guys, men? why are they instinctively or innately, want or expect to be led by their man?

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overall, why do they want or expect leadership from us guys, men? I know people will say things like: "will knowing the answer change anything for you? Women aren't going to change, so you have two options: you can either get angry and resentful, frustrated about the way things are, and stay the way you are, and struggle with women your whole life, OR you can just accept things the way they are"

It pisses me off a lot, is because people say it can be learned, developed, that talking to women is a learnable skill. Because it reminds me, I don't see how girls, women, need to learn and behaviors or skills when it comes to meeting, attracting guys since they normally play a passive role in the dating/mating system.

Guys, men, have to know or learn how to: "approach, walk up to women and open our mouth, start an interaction or initiate an interaction, lead the interaction, make the conversation or interaction interesting, dictate how it goes, flirt or tease, be confident or have confidence, lead or just take the lead, have leadership behavior or leadership abilities, pass her tests or shit-tests, ask her out, plan and set up the dates, have a mission or purpose, be ambitious, and probably more things I don't know or just forgot to mention.

Meanwhile for girls, women, it looks like they just have to be attractive and just go out and show up, or simply just be there and everything will fall into place for them, which to me, that doesn't take any practice or learning, trial and error, training, meanwhile whats expected of guys above, absolutely does, even if a guy is handsome or good-looking and he lacks those traits, behaviors I mentioned above, he won't get far with women at all.
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and it pisses me off when guys get labeled as having a victim mentality or just being a victim if they think or feel something is unfair or women have the better end of the stick in dating, women however, don't get labeled victims if they think the same way.
Is there a reason why girls, women, look for leadership in guys, men? why are they instinctively or innately, want or expect to be led by their man?
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