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So, I'm trying to settle a debate with my best friend about whether or not arm hair on a girl is gross or not. He says that most guys would consider it unnattractive and that it should be shaved off. He says it is no different from leg hair and, basically, he's saying that a woman should have absolutely no hair on her arms. I got really pissed at him because he even had the audacity to tell me to shave off my "mustache" and said that he was "just helping you [me] out." Our other best friend who also has hair on her arms and she thinks it's no big deal.

Sure, I don't have the best luck with guys (mostly because I just don't really care about a relationship), but it's not too hard for me to get them and arm hair is NEVER the reason why we didn't work out. The person I'm very much in (puppy) love with just told me today that he thought I could get any guy I want because he thinks I'm really sexy and my other friend (bi-girl) told me that she also thinks that. If arm hair is SO unattractive, then why are they saying that. My best friend (girl one) also has a bf and she has armhair.

MY best friend also in "ancient times" it was acceptable/attractive in society, but now it's not and women should be completely without hair.

So what do you guys think about it? Arm hair attractive or unnatractive?

My guy friend became my school bf. We were always together, he worshipped me, held my hand, put his arm around me, big hugs, cheek kissing, staring at me with puppy eyes, noticed every detail about me, gave me lots of light touches, sat pressed against me, played footsie, played with my bracelet, fingers, hair, nibbled on my thumb, hand/spoon fed me, put his hand on my thigh and lower back, rubbed cheeks when we hugged, stared at my chest, made tons of sexual comments, winked all the time, said I'm pretty, sent me sexy snapchats, etc. This went on for months. He even said he wanted to date me and we've said we love each other a lot.

Based on months of that, I assumed he at least had a crush on me, so I stupidly wrecked our friendship by admitting that I had feelings for him. He said he had feelings for me, too, just not as romantic as mine. I don't even understand that. Either they are romantic or not.

So I said that he had to stop flirting with me. He seemed surprised by this and said he had never been flirting! I NEVER would have dared tell him how I feel if everyone on here hadn't convinced me he was totally into me and he was waiting for me to make a move. Turns out not.

If I cared I would list for him everything he said and did that made me think this, but I think he's a liar and was totally flirting and maybe didn't expect it to go this far. I can't understand how he could think he wasn't leading me on. He just makes me sick now.