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She was married to a lawyer for nearly 8 years. She fell out of love sometime in 2016 (on the 4th year) and instead of communicating, kept postponing having kids and leading him on. She was acting a leech and user by then, living the comfortable life and just being with him for his wealth. Supposedly he was boring (not exciting anymore nor adventurous) and she wanted to get out of the routine but still hold on to him, not divorce him.

Then in 2019 she started cheating and got caught by early 2020. She got dumped (was initially unremorseful and happy about cheating) and received nothing during his divorce process. Then her lover obviously kicked her out, it didn't work out with other guys either and her mother had to get a liver transplant to save her life (the person that paid for it was none other than her ex husband). She's been remorseful since, claimed to have changed for the better, doesn't care about wealth anymore and has been trying to earn his love back (even made promises about giving him a child) but he wants nothing from her.

Honestly she had it so easy. She didn't even work, cook, clean the house (they had two maids doing it all) nor even return to college to finish her Master's. She did nothing at all and was good at nothing. All she had to do is be faithful and she couldn't even do that, losing everything. Wouldn't that make her the most stupidest woman ever?

I'm an exotic lover. I love traits in a partner that I will never be able to have or experience. Opposites do it for me. I don't know, I feel like the opposite side of the puzzle fills the empty spaces. Although people more similar are much easier to understand, it's the differences that keep me coming back because I feel complete and like my flaws are complemented by his successes and vice versa.

Example #1: Most people know this about me. I'm latina and I have a really big thing for northern European men. The culture, the languages, the appearance. I grew up speaking Spanish but put me around a blonde guy who is speaking German and you'll see a different side of me. Lol
Example #2: I am not creative AT ALL. I'm a logical thinker and analyzer, so I'm a lover of math and science. Try to get me to paint or play an instrument and I wouldn't know where to start. But people who are more talented in the arts and music draw my attention. I find it cool because it's something I'll never understand. I'm passionate, but I express it in other ways, not through creativity. (This similarity tends to be a good one for me when dating.)

So which one are you? And what do you think of it? Do values come into play, maybe ethics? Or is it just your preference and what's good for you? Or maybe what you prefer on this isn't the best for you?
Let's hear it!