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My boyfriend seems to get into situations that make me wonder if he has an anger management problem (apart from having a very short temper when it comes to our own disagreements). Yesterday was just another one in a list of events that occurred in the past 6 months, namely:

- A couple was being very loud in the supermarket and kept bumping into him in the queue to check out, at what point he turned around, smashed their groceries out of their hands on the floor and walked out. He says the crowd was looking at him in an approving kind of way, because the couple was behaving badly.

- A skateboarder was going too fast through a pedestrian tunnel and nearly knocked over his mum, which prompted him to run after him and press him up against the wall until he apologised.

- There were 'dodgy looking kids' and some car windows smashed when he was driving with his mum through a street, which prompted him to grab the wheel lock and run out of the car to chase them and tell them they are not welcome in his area.

- He crossed a red light on his bike (waited once pedestrians had crossed), and a homeless guy started shouting abuse at him, which prompted him to cycle back, lean his bike against the wall and confront the guy (I was there for this one, it was scary).

- Two homeless foreigners said something in their language that we could not understand when we walked past them, he took it as an insult and started getting ready for a fight. Luckily one of them was reasonable enough to keep him away from his bigger mate (I was there for this one as well, scary again).

- A kid on a bike nearly drove into him, again he stops and confronts the kid in a scene, the kid pretends (or doesn't, who knows) to have a knife and he still baits him and mocks him until a crowd forms and the kid walks away.

Now my boyfriend says that this is just him standing up for himself and if he didn't do that people would think they can just behave however they want.

What do you guys think?

Movies that show African Americans in segregation times. My mom doesn't know too much about BLM or how much SOME NOT ALL African Americans talk crap nonsense about white privilege.

I merely said those movies are okay but I don't like watching them. She responded with, "We need to remember those times and not forget them."

I love my mom, but I disagree, I remember because of MLK Jr. Day. I get we need to remember the struggles, but we don't need those movies. Why? Because it stirs up negative emotions towards Caucasians. As I was watching the movies I felt anger and hatred begin to stir and I didn't not like that at all. We are supposedly trying to get rid of racism as a society, but when it comes to "white privilege" no one ever corrects the racists that hate Caucasians. Why? Because of PC or because of Caucasians that treated African Americans wrong IN THE PAST.

Look, people from now cannot complain about racism just because you're not getting special treatment and you feel entitled. Your ancestors suffered to have equality, not to have you rub the past into the face of innocent Caucasians.

If people keep saying crap, like, "Oh we dont have enough opportunities, unlike whites. Blah blah blah." You are ignoring the wonderful achievements of people like Jackie Robinson, MLK Jr. Etc. They had it horrible, unlike you! So come on, people! Grow up!

I don't know ignore my rant, I guess. I just get really bothered by it. And before anyone tries to play the white privilege card on me, I'm Hispanic.

But what are your thoughts? Should we keep making more movies like those? Or make movies that have positive messages geared toward everyone?