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Been sitting here wondering if I'm being too much of a prude and overthinking stuff. Normally I wouldn't even consider flings, one nights, etc. or even consider a guy I don't know too well; we know of each other but don't quite know each other. But am quite attracted to the guy, it's obvious he's into me, and well to quote a lot of people if everyone's into it well it's just a bit of fun. His reputation as a whole is so, so as some people say he's grand, others' won't quit referring to him as an ass, and a few other things that may just be jealousy speaking. Therein's my issue. I've got a dang good reputation around here and can just see if whatever be it a fling, friends with benefits, more than such, etc. got out people going wtf is/was she doing with him.

Not that I actually care, most bitches don't like themselves so it's not surprising for them not to like other women. I will not walk around with my head down or feeling any type of way for nobody because of their emotional/mental issues. And immediately once they see me they automatically give me negative/jealousy vibes.

They have not met. was planning on introducing them next weekend. Now forget it. 😒

I was so caught off guard when he said that. It was not with a smirk or anything he seemed to think he was giving sage advice. The fact it is patronizing to me is the least of my concern -though it is no small concern.

Now I don’t know if he is just a closeted racist , sexist , bigot or ALL. None are ok. I can not think of any scenario where what he said Would be warranted.

I simply told him About my friend. He is helping me practice French bc I aim to visit distant relatives in France in the Spring. He is awesome I really enjoy his company and he is polite and kind and clever. Nothing in there says “Oof.. be careful you know how these people are”.

Also he is gay so if anyone thinks it’s jealousy.. He knows he is gay.

I can’t really see asking him

“ Why did you earn me to “ be careful” ?
🤔🤨

Bc he is black ; Gay; A guy; From a “ shit hole country” ( I don’t believe this clearly I’m illustrating what I suspect to be the type of attitude , that would compel a person to say what he said.)

My boyfriend has always been very considerate and kind. The worst I can say about him is his life has been un encumbered by any kind of major difficulty.

His parents are not Rich but his Great Aunt is a wealthy Philanthropist and she has always doted on him. She does not hide he is her favorite great nephew- They are close. She has always been very supportive of him.

But mostly this upbringing seems to make him relaxed and boyishly sweet -if sometimes ever so slightly spoiled or entitled. I don’t think this in itself should result in any kind of bigotry- unless you are already an asshole.😒

I am part Chinese part Russian he has never shown any issue with that. I’m Jewish on my fathers side. He on his Mothers. His parents are from Germany. He grew up in the states. I am rather close to his great Aunt.

Shocked. This is absolutely one thing I never thought would be an issue..