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I have owned my condo for over a year. I live on the first floor, I have one tenant living above me. She rents, there was another guy living here before she did. It’s a one bedroom so usually only one person would ever live above me. There’s carpeting upstairs and I was considering soundproofing before I had it on the market to sell recently. People were talking about soundproofing with sprayfoam etc. I figured itd be too much to soundproof a one bedroom condo and not worth it in the long run. I had it on the market for about a month & had six offers. Three offers were solid, they were considering buying the home more than the listed price. I was considering selling but decided to take it off the market because I got major anxiety with the idea of selling my home. I don’t like my upstairs neighbor, she is not TERRIBLE noise wise but it’s when she has visitors (noise levels come in patterns). I can hear everything from footsteps cabinets closing etc, I don’t think it’s because of me being too sensitive to noise. I love my place so much and the thought of losing it gave me cold feet. But, I get annoyed with the noise I hear upstairs (yes, I’ve complained to her). I was this close to selling it & no longer want to consider soundproofing. Any other suggestions for soundproofing? I’m an idiot aren’t I 😭