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I might be the minority but I don’t completely fault him for not wanting to give up his seat. I get where he’s coming from, it’s how he described her that kinda turned me off. And the lady/old man shouldn’t have come at him like that.

I’ve only met my dad once in my life, not until I was 22 years old. He took me to get some ice cream. But since then, I’ve never heard from him again.

The only reason we met each other back then is because I searched for him on one of those people search/background check websites. He moved to Alaska while my mom was pregnant with me and was still there for all these years.

But a few weeks ago, I did another search for him and I see that he’s recently moved from Alaska to the state that is right next to me.

Should I try to get in touch with him again? I’d like to have him in my life, but I don’t know if it’s a good idea to contact him when he might not be interested in getting to know me.

First, he got me pregnant and didn’t want to discuss about the topic. The first thing he asked was where to get the abortion. When he found out I might keep it became angry. He said really selfish and inconsiderate things to me like I will resent you if you let the kid born…I don’t want a beeping child…etc. Lucky for him that I got a miscarriage, and he was just so relieved from that he doesn’t care about my physical health. He then realized how big of jerk he was, apologized, and give him time to fix things.

Not long after, he randomly came to me and told me his friend paid flights/hotel to do some crazy adventure by himself for the weekend…an example, like purposely sleep near people with covid. We live together and he didn’t discuss with me at all. His friends didn’t just randomly did that…they asked him of he’s down and he just said yes excitedly. He purposely didn’t tell me on my birthday because he knew I would be upset. He decided to tell me today. I obviously got upset about it. I did tell him that everything adds up, and this would really add another damage to our relationship. How inconsiderate and selfish can you be for not even discussing this with me…and just do it. He understands and that it makes sense that I’m upset. But, He won’t back down and basically saying he will go. He value his friendship with his friend and cannot be disrespectful to this free trip. He does have the option to pay his friend back…but he rather go have fun and fix the relationship after. It’s very hard to say this but he rather me be upset, damaging the relationship, and go have his weekend. He also lied that his friends bought it without asking the dates. He actually told his friend which exact date.

Then he tried to play it cool and told me to just let this go and suck it up. And that this is only happening because of the pregnancy and miscarriage thing. On top of everything, he missed my dad’s birthday claiming he got the dates mixed up.

When My cousin died he was a new born baby her mother is not my Auntie but my Uncle is My Uncle didn't want the baby Because it was just a one night stand Im 7 years old that day when I heard them arguing my Uncle and Auntie was not married yet but she's pregnant with a girl but my Cousin who died is a boy to make it short he is not made a mistake but his parents are, and to make it shorter My cousin that is a girl and my cousin that is a boy who died are half siblings since same Father but different Mother and when my Dead cousin was already burried in the grave we went home still broken but when I went outside the house I saw a big green butterfly and it is beautiful so I called my Grandmother's friend which is My dead cousin's Grandmother and told her about the butterfly and she said"that is your cousin dear he might be dead but his presence will always still near us and protecting us even when he is already gone" so I was amazed about what she said and I can't still believe what she said.
But I want your opinions if you believe in it😅