Why would this guy lead me on and lie about having a girlfriend then block me and turn around pressing charges on me?

[Anonymous]

i tried to reach out to him, he keep blocking me. I found out i was pregnant. I told him before things turn left that im missing my period. I have reached out to people who may know him to let them know i'm pregnant and thats when i found out he had other girlfriend. He never claim he had a girlfriend but the girl claim he was his girlfriend and he had another girlfriend he been with for 15 years. I thought i was the only one. He lied to me. He now threaten to press charges on me for telling the girl ''his business'' with the truth and that i'm pregnant with child. He denying the child at first but then he turning around saying i should get rid of baby and i told him no and i haven't heard from him since. Why is he doing this to me? i'm pregnant and I'm hurt, angry and I'm scared because he might be trying to put me to jail to silence me. before everything went left, I told him to give me money to buy plan b just in case i get pregnant, I had no job at that time to afford it i had just came from staying in another city at that time. He told me he didn't have the money but i saw him posting on his instagram story that he brought $200 shoes. I'm hurt and angry and he's probaly use text messeging against me as harassment because ''I'm putting his business in the street''... little did he know its my business too. right now he's not blocking me no more, he's ignoring me... I send him pictures of ultrasound and pregnancy test to prove to him and thats the last text. I'm blaming myself for putting myself in this situation... he lead me on. I'm hurt because he's running off to the sunset with this girl and he probaly telling her lies , she was nice to me at first but when she told me he said to get rid of the baby and i said no... she blocked me. Please excuse my grammer and spelling, I can't think straight and i'm typing fast.

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i've been knowing this guy since April 2021

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I'm sooo hurt and my world has turn up side down

[slatyb]

"He now threaten to press charges on me for telling the girl 'his business' with the truth and that i'm pregnant with child. " He's an ass. You can tell anyone anything you want if it's true, or if you believe that it's true. And no matter what, it's not a crime. He could never "press charges". If you tell malicious lies about him, then he could sue you for slander. But no lawyer would take it.

[Asker]

he's talking about press charges on me for harassment because i went to far to tell people his business.

[slatyb]

That's ridiculous. You haven't threatened him, and you told the truth. He has no cause of action.

However, I am not a lawyer and could be completely wrong. If you know one personally, ask them.

[Asker]

i'm definitely getting a lawyer... i have to check at my local sheriff office website everyday to see if i'm on the warrant list

[slatyb]

You can talk to a lawyer for about five minutes and will likely get the same answer I gave you. Let us know when you get it resolved.

[Asker]

This man got arrested for receiving stolen property smh

[bamesjond0069]

he's not interested. Baby or not. I don't know why girls think just because you're pregnant a man will want anything to do with you.

[Asker]

why would he lead me on and lie?

[bamesjond0069]

Because he thinks you're just trashy and belong to the streets. And in fact you do, being in your 30s and single and pregnant by some casual sex.

[Asker]

i told his mom and i will put him on child support

[Asker]

he's trashy... if anything he's waaaay more trashy then me smdh you the same age as him... he have a girlfriend and lied to me about it, he lead me on

[Asker]

he's the biggest trash out here and he got life fucked up by thinking i'm like him

[Asker]

he's got a older girlfriend in her 40s at least i'm fertile to have a child and i'm prettier then her... he never claim her and still dont

[Asker]

if im trashy... what he supposed to be? a decent classy men who dont play games with women? LMAO!! you should see what kind of love triangle he got going on with these other women

[bamesjond0069]

Its irrelevant how trashy he is. He just doesn't want to add to his problems and tbh you come off as a crazy.

[Asker]

yeah im crazy as hell and he played with the wrong one

[bamesjond0069]

thats exactly why he's run away on you. he would rather pay you child support then live with a nutso whack job. this is basically why most men run.

[Asker]

his problems? he the one created more problems by lying to different women and think nothing won't catch up with him.. ... i dont understand why people do people wrong and turn around and play victim. i'm not that crazy to try to find him and hurt him.

[Asker]

yeah because he played games with the wrong female... if he was honest and ginuwine, i wouldn't came at him crazy. I'm a good person and i dont bother with nobody

[Asker]

he will rather pay me child support then live with a nut? lmao i dont want to deal with him because he's a hoe and want someone to run over and i'm not it lol

[Anonymous]

Why keep something itll have no dad?

[Opinion Owner]

Why keep something that's causing u hurt and pain. Abort and move on. The guys not leaving his wife for you

[Asker]

that girl is not his girlfriend lmao! I'm keeping it and moving out of town !! he will be on child support and getting a dna to prove

[Asker]

he never claim that bitch and still don't ! I'm not abort a damn thing and i dont want him like that its obviously he's a hoe... he shouldve never thought about cheating in the first place

[Opinion Owner]

I agree. I'm sorry you have to go through this alone

[Asker]

he's making good money and now i hit the jack pot... but i was never interested in his money

[Anonymous]

I get the feeling he got busted.

[Asker]

smdh