Search Results: scared of getting close

I met someone new but my recent breakup is too fresh. what should I do?

So basically I just got out of a 3.5 relationship. It’s only been less then 3 months since the breakup but I’m having trouble moving on. Well I ended up meeting a girl a month after the breakup on complete accident....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Help me out?

The last couple of years have Been kinda tough for me since of dropped out of College, and started tech School (Carpenting) in the start of 2019. I realised how lonely i actully was and the only place i was able to be...

Usernamedon1

Xper 2 Age: 27

Dating

I need some advice?

I've been hooking up with a guy for about 5 months now, I've known him for 4 years and we used to hook up years prior. I'm not sure if he likes me. He says things like he thinks im perfect. And when i tell him i...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

I really need some advice?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Refuse to give closure?

I dated this guy for 4 months, and it was perfect, insane chemistry, good sex life, not a single argument. Same upbringing, same morals, same life goals. He had to move to a different country because of work and broke up...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Can I cure my anxiety without therapy?

I KNOW THIS SOUNDS LIKE A DUMB QUESTION but my parents are really conservative and therapy would be the equivalent of mental hospital for them. also, they would never agree to it and im too embarrassed to talk to them...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Other

Guy trouble - advice needed?

I have a long distance guy friend who I have feelings for and he said he feels the same but sometimes I'm not so sure his feelings are genuine. He has told me that he doesn't want to lose me and sends me a red heart emoji...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

What do you do if you're being followed?

I was out at night (it wasn't late), taking my dog out on a walk when a guy started following me. Every turn I made, he made it too. Then I saw someone with a dog and I tried getting close to him. Then, I ran to my house....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Is it normal to be scared of someone you find highly attractive?

I can't stand being around this guy, it's not him its me. I always go so red and shy and can't even look him in the eyes whenever he's around me. I always make the excuse that I'm feeling ill and I need to head off...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Home Chats

"Girls Don't Know What They Want [in Relationships]": The Real Reasons Behind This Male-Created Myth

This is the first in a series of articles I'll be writing debunking some commonly-held myths about dating, society and life. Myths are beliefs - widely-held but false and erroneous conclusions. They make sense, they're...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Dating

He has reservations because of his past relationships but really likes me?

So I’ve been seeing a guy for about 3 weeks, talking for about a month. We have been intimate already. We talk on the phone 2 times a day and text constantly all day. He is always the one initiating the phone calls He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why are men acting like this?

Men are provoked by women dressing half naked? lmao wow I honestly realized that this is why I dont date anymore. haha they can't control it? just saw tons of tik toks today of men approaching 16, 17 year old girls which...

faultygemini

Xper 1 Age: 29

Education & Career

Why is a person who got me fired 2 years ago is still stalking me?

2 years ago I finished my degree and got a first job that was relevant to that degree. I worked there for a little over a year. It was hell. I'm usually a nice person, worked hard but I suffered severe psychological...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why The Number of Sexual Partners Matters

Disclaimer: I want to be clear that everyone is free to make choices in their lives. I'm not gonna tell anyone what to do, I'm just sharing my perspective on a subject I'm very passionate about. And since I'm a...

TruthBringer

Yoda Age: 28

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Girl's Behavior

Is She Playing Hard To Get?

I met a girl online and we hit it off from the very beginning. We've been texting each other every day for several weeks now and have developed a very close (only online due to long distance) relationship. She is always...

LaVillaStrangiato

Xper 5 Age: 50

Relationships

Guys, How do I get him back?

So me and this guy have been talking/dating for close to a year now and things are finally starting to develop and get more serious. He’s working out of town so I went see him for the weekend. We had a GREAT weekend being...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Should I keep talking to him? Am I being dumb?

This guy and I have been talking for almost 2 months, but we still haven’t made it official. We have confessed our feelings for each other however, both of us struggle with commitment issues and right now I don’t mind...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

Why would an ex ask after me?

My ex and I split up nearly 2 years ago. We were ultra close and people had noticed our connection. He ended it out of the blue saying he never felt a connection. ( looking back i think he was scared, we had been close...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

I have a crush on my best friend (girl)14, when/how/should I (boy)15 tell her?

We have known eachother since primary school for 11 years, we had a relationship in primary school (not serious cuz its primary school). We have after 2 years out of contact gotten in contact again we both were getting...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Health & Fitness

Catastrophizing thoughts (cognitive distortion):what it is and how to cope with it

Ever feel excessive stress and worry for a small nuisance, you know it’s nothing to be worried about but you can’t help but worry about it? Well, that is known as catastrophizing which is a type of cognitive distortion....

ADFSDF1996

Editor Age: 30

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