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Him: What are you doing exactly? To achieve your dream?
Me: Will you call me
Him:: No. At work. Okay let me ask again. You want to be an actress. What are you currently doing to achieve that goal?
Me: Nothing. I am just dreaming like a fool
Him: You certainly are. Cause if you really wanted something as bad as you claim you would bust your ass everyday to get it. You should wake up every morning starving to improve yourself.
Me: I want it very much but I am very passive for achievements.
Him: Then just quit.
Me: My quiting or not quiting does nothing
Him: If your not going to bust your ass. If your not going to give it everything you got. Then just quit.
Me: The problem is I can't see how I can achieve my dream
Him: Research. Research. Research you fool.
Me: Okay I am a fool. Just dumb. And I can't achieve my dreams. you're my friend. you're not fool. Then help me
Him: Dafuq? Help yourself. You think I'm always going to be there to wipe your ass like your a baby? Stand on your own two feet. Show some fuck backbone.
Me: Okay then help me as long as you're alive !!!
Him: I got my own life to live. I'm certainly not going to baby sit you. Find answers for yourself. Do it on your own so you don't have to depend on others.
Me: By helping me you won't give up your life
You make helping me sound like a sacrification
Him: Stand on your own two feet. Are your parents so useless they couldn't teach you that?
Me: my parents teach me help each other.
Him: You think long and hard about your life. Cause I'm still doing work I could have finished 20 min ago but to busy talking to you. funny how sacrifice work huh? Later

Just a question I've always wondered. Like do hot people know they're hot? Ugly know they're ugly? Etc?

Since I constantly see those "Am I ugly? RATE ME?" questions, and I wonder if these chicks (mostly chicks) are attention seeking, legitimately curious, etc.

As for my original question; let's say you think you're hot shit, but everyone/majority thinks you're fugly "she's acting like she's cute, why is she so confident?"
Or, you think you're ugly, but everyone/majority thinks you're pretty "why is she so insecure, she's beautiful!"

So, who's right? Would the person opinion of themselves, or the majority? Or a bit of both, or neither? Is it the old adage "beauty is in the eye of the beholder", whoever is attracted to you determines it? Who determines if you're physically attractive? Is it healthier for one over the other? Here are examples of what I mean:
-Like let's say someone is so obese, that it is affecting their health. But they think they're the best looking, and should not change? Everyone says this person is ugly, and should make changes not only for appearance, but health as well (their sincerity of concern of health is questionable but doesn't matter in this scenario). This person doesn't care, s/he thinks s/he's beautiful, and doesn't what to change.
-Or someone who's really attractive, but doesn't think they're good enough/good looking enough, so they starve themselves. Everyone tells this person that s/he is beautiful, and to stop obsessing. But s/he doesn't care about anyone else's opinion, s/he thinks s/he is ugly and wants to change.

So, who determines if you're attractive or not?

*Bonus question, what do you consider yourself?
*AS USUAL, INSECURE PEOPLE, ENTER AT YOUR OWN RISK!*