Search Results: Do you pull out right away or keep it in

What does it mean when a guy keeps going quiet?

Hello all, there is this guy. We kissed when we were teens. We met again on bumble last year. I was NOT in the right place. My heart was bleeding out and I couldn't control my emotions (after a really rough break-up) We...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

The Red Flags Of Domestic Abuse

Following from my previous myTake which attempted to highlight how domestic abuse against men is often played down or men themselves are completely unaware of the warning signs, I have decided to share those warning...

Hannah591

Editor Age: 31

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Top 5 Reasons Why Men Lose Interest Immediately

The other day I received an email from a 20-something woman asking my thoughts on why this guy she had been seeing might have suddenly lost interest. She explained her story and how he seemed very interested during the...

MzAsh

Master Age: 42

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Should I give up and move on?

My boyfriend and I have dated for over a year. We have had some troubles fighting when we drink especially recently. We argue and someone gets mad. We got into one of these fights at his friends wedding on Saturday. I...

cattttx23

Xper 4 Age: 31

I was used as a rebound and then he left me how do I get over it?

I had met a guy one random day and never knew I woul love him this much. He wasn't exceptionally handsome or cool nor was his attention anything new. Many guys liked me. But I fell for him very fast because there was just...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Guys, what does it mean if a guy fingers me in bed but doesn't want anything in return?

This guy and I were good friends 10+ years ago but lost touch. I had a huge crush on him all throughout high school/college, and he has alluded to the fact that he may have had a crush on me back then too. Anyway, a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do I deserve better? Will I find it?

My boyfriend family had an Easter get together. I know it's a little early but they do stuff before the holiday. And I drove an hour to see him, cause we live that far away from each other. So I drove half asleep, I work...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Yikes! What do I do?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Healing from a Heartbreak: Part 1

This is dedicated to the girl out there who is feeling lonely... you are beautiful... don't stay because you are scared to be alone... Part 1: Red Flag Filled Relationship * WARNING THIS INVOLVES A HIGH TRIGGER WARNING,...

Tonga

Explorer Age: 24

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My partner broke up with me and I’d like to know what they mean by what they said. Are they not stable is it because of me? Please explain?

they texted me and said This is what she said You’re not a joke. I might not show you lately, but I care about you. The problem is my inability to spend time with you. The other one is the age again. I still...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When someone locks eyes with you but it's a devious look what does that mean?

My neighbor doesn't like me. I was in my car and I was on the right side of the street. She was on the left side of her driveway. She gave me a blank stare and locked eyes with me. Looked me straight in the face and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

The time I got ghosted, and what I learned from it.

I'm happy to say that I haven't spent very much time getting ghosted in life. I don't really know why that is, or if I've done anything to be so fortunate, but what I DO know is that the few times that I've been ghosted,...

winterfox10

Master Age: 33

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Family & Friends

Why would they do this?

I was with two of my friends, we were at her house. We live kinda out in the country so there’s not a lot to do, there’s not shops that are local enough for us to walk to and there just isn’t anything we could do for fun....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

If a guy presses his leg to a girl's leg, tenses up and pulls away a bit, but then he presses his leg to hers again and not move it at all?

I'm confused, what could it mean? He's my coworker and it was a night out with some other coworkers. We ended up sitting next to each other and I didn't initiate body contact, just sat really close to him but wasn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

We talk over text, but I'm always the one reaching out first. Keep going or pull the plug?

Been friends with this girl for a while now but lately I think there might be something more going on than friendship. I obviously fancy her and I think sometimes she seems to fancy me. Whenever I text her, I get a reply...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

What to do about her anxious daughter who is cheating and lying!

This is all true, wrote it for my xGF and sharing for benefit of others! People just want me to write simply..."give me the answer!" No, I have fun writing the answer, it's more fun that way:) PRIOR RELATIONSHIP CRASH...

lightbulb27

Master Age: 60

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Why He Pulled Away When Everything was Going Well?

So I was seeing this guy for about half a year. We were both in relationships with someone else when we met at work and we began to realize that we had undeniable chemistry between us that we didn’t have with our...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

HELP!! Is this bad? What did I do wrong? What should I do?

So one of my female independent contactors asked me on a date in late December. She wanted me to go with her to a New Year’s Eve party. I said yes. Never dated one of my employees never thought I would but people kept...

Funny7

Xper 5 Age: 34