After our conversation about what was going on between us, we were hanging out. He was very affectionate towards me (lingering hugs, draping his arm across my legs, etc.). We ended up in his bed. He spent a lot of time just massaging and caressing my shoulders/neck/stomach. He ended up fingering me for a long time (multiple orgasms on my part). I could tell he was very turned on but he didn't want to have sex. I was rubbing him through his pants but he was just laying there super stoic. He said a couple of times that it wasn't about him, that it was about me and he said something about the stress relief for me.
While he was fingering me, he was nuzzling my neck and kept giving me sweet long kisses on the lips. We've still texted everyday since then, but he has made no more mention of seeing me. I sometimes get the feeling that anytime things become too "real", he pulls away a little.
What do you think is going on? Does he genuinely have feelings for me or am I just his company and support system during a tough time?
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He's holding back on your behalf. A true gentleman. I don't hear many stories like yours anymore. Good on you! You got someone that values you above his own desires!
Next time, if you want to, just say so. That'll start your stage 2.
Thanks for your input! I suggested stage 2 but he just said it wasn't about him.
Would you take this to mean he genuinely has feelings for me?
Can't read minds I'm afraid, but from what you told me alone, I'm sure he dose care about you. So that's a +.
Also, Twalli said all I need to say on the other part. Advice is a free commodity that anyone can afford!