Why does he put his finger in my mouth? What does he mean by all of the things he does to me?

[Confused_girl17]

So I've been friends with a guy for about a year now. We have become best friends and we spend 24/7 with each other. We were sleeping in my bed and started to cuddle. Every night after that he wanted to cuddle again. This went on for about two weeks. A few days ago he started pushing my body against his to put his hand on my butt and slide his hand from one side to the other or he would just hold it. Now he has started to put his hand under my shirt and rubs my back. When he's not doing that he's pushing our bodies together and he pulls my hair. He hasn't kissed me though so I don't know what he wants from me. He has also been putting his finger in my mouth and moving it around inside. I don't know why he does that

[AllThatSweetJazz]

He is definitely into you. 100% money back guarantee.

I don't think it's completely weird for him not to have gone for a kiss, though the finger in mouth is thing is REALLY pushing it, and that's the only part that doesn't make sense to me. Though there is the question of why you haven't gone for a kiss either. It's apparent to him that you're letting him do all these things and probably thinks it's obvious to you that he likes you, so *maybe* he's enjoying the teasing and thinks it's more fun if he gets you to go for the kiss. I can relate to that too. :P

[Confused_girl17]

Well he has a girlfriend that lives far away so could that be why he hasn't kissed me?

[AllThatSweetJazz]

That sounds like a good reason. I think he clearly likes you, so you need to decide if you're cool with him having a girlfriend and acting the way he is. You can ditch him, you can tell him he needs to make a choice and proceed based on his choice, or you can let him do what he's doing and let him have his girlfriend too. If he does kiss you and it seems like that's what you want then you'll need to ask yourself if you want to be exclusive with him and get him to ditch the other girl or if you're willing to be the second girlfriend.

[eddie_97]

Sounds like he's interested in you, probably holding back from doing anything so he doesn't lose his friendship with you.

If you want to take a step further with him maybe let him know or initiate it.
If you're just friends then let him know and tell him to stop

[Anonymous]

He wants to fuck you. Its obvious. And he may only want sex; hence, why he hasn't kissed you. A lot of people feel as though a kiss is more intimate than sex because you can fuck with no emotions but generally you dont kiss someone unless you like them. But this guy definitely wants to have sex with you. My male friends have told me the whole finger in the mouth thing is a turn on because when you sick on their finger it lets their imagination run wild about you sucking their dick.

[Confused_girl17]

He has a girlfriend and she lives out of town. Could that be why he hasn't kissed me?

[Opinion Owner]

Doubtful. He obviously doesn't care of he cheats or he wouldn't be rubbing on your ass. Watch yourself. Cheaters are scum.

[Anon85]

Obviously more than friends. Did you think that was normal by any stretch of the imagination?

[Mcgregar]

Opposite side here, I have never been in a relationship yet (18 yo christian boy) but when I look at art I think pictures involving "fish-hooking" or gently grabbing/pulling the tongue is super hot. I see a lot of people saying the finger thing is him wanting a blowjob but I don't think that's why I find it hot in these pictures. I seem to just have an oral fascination, is this a fetish or what?

[JustCallMeLeon]

Sorry but he's not your friends. He wants to bone you. Its only a matter of time before you wake up with his dick up in your mouth.

[Cody01]

He wants puss puss.
This ain't a friendship this is a relationship.

[Cody01]

He a cheater too

[Bandit74]

He wanted to make sure you have a healthy gum line.

[Sugahbaby93]

😂😂

[floridabum47]

He wants you to suck his finger like you would suck him

[Kaybaby420]

He wants to have sex.

[FreedomByChoice]

or maybe he just likes to stick his hands in other people mouth. Knew someone who would randomly just do either that or poke someone in the eyes.

[Kaybaby420]

He's touching/rubbing/holding her ass and pulling her body closer to his. He wants sexy time

[FreedomByChoice]

I don't know maybe she was cold?

[Kaybaby420]

Mhmmmm

[FreedomByChoice]

lol..

[ksmallk]

He probably wants to hook up

[wagstag]

It should be pretty clear he wants sex

[rahulganorkar]

Friends with benefits...

[AlphaStyles]

Your friend ( obviously not) wants to bonk you

[garfield1968]

truly. HE WANTS TO FUCK YOU

[eagle1951]

maybe he wants to get your mouth use to his. dick

[Mistay36]

He wants a blow job

[Revolver_Ocelot]

he's a true rapist

[Iron_Man]

Oral sex wants it

[ILoveBigBoobs]

He wants to fuck you

[fruityroshan]

Nervous

[amitcs90]

He want sex

[Anonymous]

he wants sex