Search Results: getting over someone breakups

Ex boyfriend dumped me and broke my heart, now he wants me back but I have moved on. What should I do?

We were great together but from time to time he would get very cold and distant, and this made our relationship lose spark over the 7 years total. This last year together was very good, getting along so well. But then...

Zevenx11

Xper 4 Age: 29

Dating

Dating after your first breakup? Whens the right time?

When is it okay to date again? How do you know you are over your ex? And how do you avoid falling for the wrong person again? I'm feeling fomo. Everyone is getting married and I've recently come out of a 6 year...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

How do you get over someone who cheated on you?

My ex was literally my best friend we did absolutely everything together and he brought me out of so much darkness and layers of shyness and i was able to talk to people and be able to laugh and have fun because he was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Cushioning: Effects, Defects and Side Effects!

Hello and welcome everyone! In this take, I'll talk bout cushioning: the latest dating trend which is just a result of our fear of heartbreak. So what actually is cushioning? According to the Urban Dictionary, cushioning...

Halucinator

Editor Age: 24

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Relationships

The Anti-Ghosting Protocol

I've seen a bunch of questions here on GAG, a lot of them are people wondering why someone they've been talking to stopped responding suddenly and completely. That is usually attributed to the unfortunate behavior of...

NineBreaker

Yoda Age: 42

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Break Up & Divorce

How to deal with this breakup?

My boyfriend just broke up with me and he said he wasn't into me anymore, he was persistent and I wasn't able to change his mind. He said he would have no confidence to tell me later.. in case he might change his mind....

arineunha

Xper 6 Age: 28

Break Up & Divorce

Should I divorce my husband?

I have been married for two years. We were in a relationship before that for almost 8 years. Anyway, I started liking a guy and told my husband ( then my boyfriend ) that I liked someone else and didn't want to be with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

My ex got a new boyfriend, is there a chance we ever get back together?

So I was dating this girl for a year and a half and things were great. We had great chemistry, she was beautiful inside and out, and she was the girl I always dreamed of. Last October she broke up with me because she felt...

Cbudden3

Xper 4 Age: 28

Break Up & Divorce

How do I get over a breakup? We were together for 2 years. How do I move on?

my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me a week ago today. I've never felt more broken depressed and hurt in all my life. Im 25 and he's 22. He told me that he is not happy the past few months we were having small...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Where to find motivation to get over a breakup?

I've been in a long distance relationship for about 2 years, but recently we decided that it will not work because neither wanted to move permanently to the other's place. I feel like this was the right decision for both...

cloudstack

Xper 5 Age: 34

Dating

Did I ruin my chances way too much the first time, to ever get it back on track now?

So, i know this girl from a long time (a few years). We lived in different cities and had never actually met each other, but no doubt developed a chemistry, even though we had our individual lives. In short, it was like a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Need help with this relationship question PLEASE?

So here's the deal. My ex and I were very much in love. Everything was wonderful and we were there for each other during some very tough times. We were extremely compatible, liked the same things, had the same sense of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Girls, Should I tell my EX my feelings?

So I have an ex who I'm really really close with right now as friends. She always makes up excuses to talk to me, she waits at her locker for me to come to the lockers just so she can talk to me, I'm her snapchat...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

My Worst Dating Experience

I just want to share my story about the worst dating experience I've had. I feel like venting since I've learned about certain details today and want to write everything out so I can put a lid on it and move on. If you're...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Dating

How would you feel if your "friend with benefits" was seeing someone else?

So guys... I was wondering I'm dating this guy and we are doing the friends with benefits thing. We are very open and intimate with each other, we go out a lot and talk about everything. He is still getting over his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

If you're in love with your partner, would you need a week break? My boyfriend asked for 1 week break?

Anonymous

(30-35)

first off me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 1 year. he's a joking type of guy.. he likes to joke around a lot with everyone so anyway yesterday we were on the phone and

first off me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 1 year.
he's a joking type of guy.. he likes to joke around a lot with everyone
so anyway yesterday we were on the phone and he said something that kinda offended me and i went full silent mode and got pissed a little.. and then i hanged up on him
he kept trying to call back but i ignored his calls
i think he called about 4 or 5 times until i picked up and told him that ill talk to him the next day
so today he texted "morning" and i didn't reply
he was at work but he still tried to call me and then he sent me messages saying "you always do this to me. I've had enough. i have my limits too. i need to talk to u tonight. ill come over"
and then tonight he drove to my place and we talked for about 10 mins
this is what he said to me:
"look.. im just gonna keep this short. this is getting too much. i told u so many times that i hate being ignored. its so immature. i have my limits and this has reached it. i want a girl who treats me like respect back and that would fight for our relationship. i feel like you dont have the same feelings as i do for you. i feel like you're going to not care if we do break up. you never hold my hands, you never appreciate what i do. i take u to places wherever you wanna go, i take u out, i drive to you and u never appreciate all that. im just confused about you now. i need time to think about us, our relationship. i need 1 week to think if we both benefit each other. i dont care about the good sex that we have. i care about the relationship and if you're wife material. im thinking of the future not fucking around. so please give me 1 week to think and for yourself to think as well. i will see you next week. dont break up with me over the phone"
and then we parted ways.
Thing is, he tells me he loves me everyday and he doesn't want me to leave him.
Yet he might want to leave me
If someone truly loves their partner, would they still need a week break? Does it sound like it may lead to a breakup?

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Entertainment & Arts

Arts and Personal Emotion

Yesterday, I got picked on for not having sexual attraction for women in a way that people would expect. I listened to music to cheer myself up. Today, my family and I had visited a historical court along with statues and...

Lopezz1999

Editor Age: 26

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Break Up & Divorce

My ex boyfriend messages me out of the blue after strict radio silence then doesn't reply when I respond? What's his end game?

Okay I broke up with my ex boyfriend a little over a month ago after an incredibly stressful week in which he had slipped back into his paranoia. He's been overseas and has very bad PTSD, and while he never physically did...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

5 Steps To help You Move Forward And Survive After A Painful Breakup

The ending of a relationship is difficult,and extremely painful. The pain can become consuming,and as if it'll last forever. Heartbreak is inevitable when you've lost someone you love , but the painful feelings don't need...

Fitness-Fanatic

Editor Age: 36

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Guy's Behavior

Ignoring my boyfriends calls/texts? Bad idea? read the story?

We broke up in September. 6 months went by and we both couldn't move on. He came back into my life end of March asking for a fresh start. I was skeptical due to how badly he handled the breakup/post breakup. He admitted...

kld66

Xper 3 Age: 32