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It was my friends 18th a few days ago and we went out clubbing yesterday with the squad. The girl whose birthday it was has been my closest friend since kingergarten but we have a very superficial relationship in that we rarely talk about deep and meaningful things. For the sake of anonimity I'll call her Kate.
Now last year me and this boy who I've been so close with for years disovered we had feelings for eachother and he told me he loved me. We will call him Joe. We had a complicated relationship for months. He was a virgin and wasn't ready to have sex and that was fine with me but I felt at that time in my life I wasn't ready to take the plunge because I thought I would hurt and disappoint him. We ended things and went back to being best friends.
So, Kate has been a bad friend for a long time, doing countless shitty little things but our families are so close that she's more of a sister (thus I cannot avoid her). Joe has been doing bad things since they've been hanging out more.
Last night Joe asked me for a hug and really held onto me and he has social anxiety so I thought it was the usual "I'm having a panic attack help" kind of hug he gives me. Then he told me that him and Kate are now together. Turns out everyone knew and they have been for about a month but flirting and what not for longer.
I see Kate every day and not once did she think to tell me.

I'm not a person that is overly emotional but when I heard this it felt like someone had punched me in the stomach, I went and had a cry and a panic attack after. She's so manipulative and fake (always has been) and I'm so scared he will get hurt. She fakes interests that he has despite me knowing that she hates them. (hardcore music, videogames, etc...)

Am I justified in being angry with them for not telling me? I just feel really disrespected and betrayed. Is it too much to ask that I be made aware of this, even casually? What do I do?

Sorry for the sook guys, I just feel quite down. I need some advice.

Hey there and thanks for reading,

I started seeing a guy for a month now. He is really handsome and we have lots of things in common. He messages me everyday and is very affectionate ( he cups my face when he kisses me, caresses my hair a lot, kisses me in the forehead and gives me little kisses everywhere) We've been on six dates and in the last one we had sex. He was super sweet. While we were having sex, he asked me what I was thinking, he stared at my eyes and searched for my hand. He also kissed my forehead. After the sex, I said I had to leave so I cuddle with him and left after fifteen minutes or so. He didn't offer me to stay. However, that was two days ago and he still messages me normally, we talk about music and books that we like, like always. He hasn't mentioned the sex and neither have I.

The catch is that we're both seing other people and we talked about this since the beggining. He is very rational and says that he doesn't want to get into a relationship until he is convinced. He also mentioned that he falls into relationships and that he doesn't plan them. I was cool with that since I'm also seeing other guys and seeing what happens.

But! on the fifth date, I asked him out to go out on Saturday and he said he was seing a girl that he mentioned is his friends with benefits. I freaked out a bit although I knew about this since day one. It was an unexcpected reaction. I told him I coudln't have sex with him since he was having sex with another girl. He said that he didn't wanted to ruin things, that he liked me and enjoyed spending time with me. We kind of left it at that and kissed at the end of the date like nothing had happened.

In the six date we had sex, we didn't mentioned anything about me freaking out about him sleeping with other girl. Or my willingness to sleep with him now. It just happened.

What do you guys think?

In one hand, I think he likes me because he is very affectionate, seems very interested in getting to know me better and its very respectful of what I think. However, he might just want to have his cake and eat it too.

Thanks a lot. Sorry for the long post.