Polls: Society & Politics

Nearly a year ago, this girl who I used to work with had a crush on me. Although shy, I did my best to accept her, and everything seemed to be building up with her and I. When my company cut back, I was let go, unfortunately (found a new job though, so things are going well in that regard). Anyways, she added me as a friend on Facebook, and we communicated like 3x week. We planned a date, but due to a stupid meeting with my new job that I was required to attend, I had to cancel. I apologized to her, and told her why in advance. She said it was okay, but really wanted to go out with me. However, she seemed to get kinda distant afterward. Instead of being usually available, we wouldn't talk for like a week. I did eventually go out with her, and after it, she kept telling me she loved it and wanted to go out with me again. After the date though, she was like never available, or rarely, if ever returned my messages. I tried to contact her several weeks later, finally got a hold of her, and she chatted a little, but then signed off of IM on me. It was then it seemed like it was me initiating conversations with her more and more, until I finally decided the ball was in her court-I wouldn't talk to her anymore unless she stared first. That was several months ago, and she hasn't started any conversation with me.

I take it she lost interest in me, and I have tried to move on. I've deleted her phone number from my contacts list, and removed any photo of her and I together from my house, etc. But its really tearing me up knowing she's online and updating her profile with new pics and stuff. So I have contemplated deleting her as a friend. Thus, I need your help:

Option a) I delete her, since I won't have to worry about seeing her updates or thinking of her, thus help me move on.

Option b) Since we didn't really break up, she might still view me as a "friend." If I delete, I might upset her.

Please vote, or provide some input. Thanks a lot, I really appreciate it

We all know this actress and superstar. We saw her in Tomb Raider, Mr. and Mrs. Smith, Beowulf, and countless more.

With this, I ask:

Guys:

Do you like those huge lips?

Do you think she's well proportioned?

Girls:

Is she attractive enough to make you jealous?

Do you think that If you looked like her you would be attractive?

I pose this question because there has been argument about what constitutes an attractive person. I personally am NOT attracted to her, I don't find her at all appealing, and so was wondering what everyone else thought.

Is it me or do you some of you notice this also. Women seem to be indirect about everything they want. I have recently just broken up with a girl. I asked her the following direct questions. Are you confused? What are you feeling? What are you thinking? Why have you been so distant lately?

An example of a direct answer would be:

I really feel that we are not right for each other. I really think you are a good guy but I don't think you are the guy for me.

An example of an indirect answer:

Regardless of what I feel. I did not like the way you acted that day. Just some advice for your future relationships no one is going to put up with that.

The indirect answer also includes little things like still hanging out with the guy even though they really don't want to and doing little things to annoy the guy just to cause some type of confrontation.

So my question is this:

Why is it so hard for women to be give a man a direct answer?

Why must they beat around the bush?

I included a poll so people can vote

Written answers are very much appreciated.