What do guys really think?

there's distinct differences between revealing that a woman has a nice body and being slutty. Generally women seem to have a better ideal of the difference between the 2 than guys.

They are just jelous because they can't "tap" that =P

but in all seriousness, it makes the guy jelous and jelousy often leads to prejudice hence the term "slut"

I'm not sure they are talking about that thing in the way that you might be thinking they are. I have rarely heard a buddy of mine say he'd like to see some T&A and then criticize the next girl he sees who is showing her goods. I think you're getting mixed messages about what guys like to see and what they value.

We like to see half naked girls. It's good eye candy and enjoyable to see. But for serious interests we are less likely to look to those girls. They seem more like a fun night and then let 'em go. For the long term you want a self-respecting girl who's unwilling to dress to please horny guys.

Think about that crazy film "The Brown Bunny." I think Chloe Sevigny played the female lead. I haven't seen it, but I know the basics. When we see a female celebrity like Kate Beckinsale or Nicole Kidman, we think we'd like to see her in a role like that. But when you actually do it, it comes out sleazy and we end up thinking - "Ah, porn star," or, in this case, "Looks kind of loose." There's a huge difference between fantasy and reality.

They are thinking "i am scared and nervious to talk to girls who's tits are popping out but instead of telling people that, I cover it up by calling her a slut or ho and I do the "i wouldn't want her anyways.""

Even if she is truly a slut of attention whore, given the chance, we'd all hit it.

this stuff is only important when trying to get laid.

this stuff is important on shallow girls who we want for one night, and in pornography. unless you're interested in that with this guy, find someone else.

I like it when women flaunt what they have, when the do it in a way that would respect themselves. Or me if I decided to date her.

you can flaunt what you got in a non slutty way but still sexy ! you ever hear the clevage or leg rule ? never both that's when it becomes trashy and guys start to think oh she's such and such a thing!