Search Results: 20 year to date a 29 year old

I have held 25 jobs in my lifetime. While my tenure was very short, I have gained exposure to a lot of experiences. I am multifaceted in a multitude of different lines of work. I went from lifeguard in my teens to Advanced EMT to software developer with minimal post-secondary formal education (of course AEMT was an accelerated course I had to take). I have retained a lot of this knowledge too. I have saved lives along the way and have worked on projects for multi-billion dollar companies by the age of 30, including Zoetis, Daimler, and McCain Foods. I am also working with state legislators to pass much-needed legislation. I have appeared before county commissioners with concerns. I am probably one of the most memorable people others encounter, although a lot of this is for bad reasons.

I have had a very rough road growing up, even into most of my 20s. I was hospitalized involuntarily countless times. I missed most of my high school years being in psychological treatment centers. By the time I graduated, I was desperate to catch up on most of the adolescent experiences I missed. I only wanted to lose my virginity to another virgin at the time, which left me in a bad psychological state. I lost my virginity to a high school girl at the age of 20, which led to a whole bunch of issues with the law, mainly because her daddy called the law on me. It was a weekend fling, considering she wanted nothing to do with me afterwards. I was kicked out of multiple colleges, and even had my gym membership suspended. I lost my EMT license. I went on dates with a lot of 17-year-olds in my early-to-mid 20s, until I got my first real girlfriend at the age of 29, whom I am now engaged to and expected to marry.

Is 30 years old the cut-off? I for one think if a woman is 20+ a man who's 29 should either settle for a woman who's at least 23 minimum and oldest 29 (his own age). I don't like big age gaps when I judge couples in my mind. I for one thought I'd always date a woman with my matching birth year, I guess not. Maybe I prefer at 29, a woman who's about 23-25.

I'm not sure I could relate to a 20 year old woman, versus let's say a 29 or even 27 year old woman (I turned 29 myself this year). I would not date a woman even a few months older than me. Picky I am. I also feel like I couldn't relate to women who had "more technology" than I did growing up. Lol. I'm starting to sound like that guy in that movie about handing over less power to his son than he himself has that he got from his father. I think you get what I mean back on topic. I think I'd prefer a woman close to my own year of birth, let alone a woman who's currently 20 or even 25. Lol.