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Hello everyone, I need some advice.

A few days ago I had an argument with my boyfriend. We’ve been together for about a year and four months. The issue started because I’ve been feeling emotionally tired lately. His dad has been very sick in the hospital for months, so he’s been understandably depressed and wanting to go out more to clear his mind. I care about him a lot, but my household is very strict. Even though I’m 20, I’m not really allowed to go out often or come home late, so it’s been hard to balance everything.

During the argument I said I thought we should break up because I felt overwhelmed. I called my sister to pick me up from his house. While she was waiting outside she started calling me repeatedly and assumed something bad was happening, even though I texted her that everything was fine and I was just getting my things.

When I came out she went inside and started yelling at my boyfriend, accusing him of things that weren’t true and saying she didn’t want him near me again. After that my mom got involved and believed something serious had happened. Now both my mom and sister think he’s bad for me and they pressured me to break up with him.

The problem is that I still love him and our relationship was generally happy. He’s not perfect, but he’s never hurt me. Now I feel stuck because if I stay with him my family gets extremely angry, but breaking up feels like I’m ending something good because of other people.

I love my family and I love him, and I feel like I’m being forced to choose between them. What would you do in this situation?

Lets say you were online friends for a few years and you were recently accused of wrongdoing online by a person that visited your friends chatroom online that could have really impacted your life but was proven you didn't do it.

Then a few days or weeks later you were in that room but was kicked out of that room by your other friend that is a moderator even though you were there first because that accuser joined. That friend messaged you after being kicked saying they only did it so no trouble would start, but they didn't kick out the accuser that had been hostile to you even before the accusations started.

Then months later not the room owner but the moderator of that room messaged you checking up on you even though you all haven't really spoken to each other much for months after everything, but only a few times.

Would you remain friends with people like this?