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I’m just wondering and would like to see the consensus here given insults can be seen as abusive in a relationship but cheating is also insulting to the partner who was cheated on.

Is it not okay at all? Is there room for context here, I would assume it is somewhat acceptable because it causes lots of confusion and sporadic feelings and especially when its fresh, is it more acceptable if your married, is it more acceptable when you find out years later, is it more acceptable if you find out through rumours, is it more acceptable if you found out in person, is it more acceptable if they told you to leave so they could finish and came back the next day asking for you back, is it more acceptable if you have a family together, is it acceptable if you keep finding out more secrets (maybe it’s been happening from the start, maybe it’s the person who popped there cherry, maybe it’s your best friend, maybe they got pregnant etc.)? If you think it’s okay, is there a time limit to stop hurling the insults, is trauma an acceptable excuse to continually do it or should there be a set grace period where said parter is allowed to blow there feelings up after being cheated on.

Sorry, messy question but I really wanna know what both men and women think about this and I don’t condone abuse, physical, emotional, sexual or physiological but I really wanted to ask this question. . how different the opinion here is and the general consensus if insults or the word “Whore” should ever be given to a cheating partner if you stay together. Please comment and give me you opinion and thank you very much!!

Back in the beginning of 2015, I was suicidal because I couldn't find another virgin to lose my virginity to. I was overdosing on my meds and kept going in and out of hospitals.

I was on this dating platform, OKCupid, and this girl messaged me. She contacted me first and I started talking to her. I explained my situation and she didn't believe me. She then avoided me.

I ended up being hospitalized again for a suicide attempt. After I was released, I messaged her and sent her a picture of my hospital wristband as proof that I was hospitalized. She then believed me and we started messaging again.

Come to find out she was 16. I was 20 at the time, but looking at the state laws in the state she resided, she was of legal age for sex.

We started talking more and more and even snapchatted. After a few months, we agreed to meet up. She was hesitant at first but she decided to go through with it.

I drove 7 hours all the way to her state to meet her. We walked the mall, had an ice cream, then we went to the hotel and we took each other's virginities. I even still have the pictures of the blood stained sheets when I popped her cherry.

The day after, we spent the entire day at the amusement park. I fell in love with her I thought. It was all affection and holding hands and kissing. I thought I found my first girlfriend. Later before we departed, she told me she did not want anything serious it shattered my heart.

I stopped talking to her for two weeks. Then I messaged her again and she said she was glad I contacted her and she had locked herself in her room crying at one point.

We started talking again, and at one point she told me I was the best guy she ever met. Although she led me on a little, she said she did not want a relationship. I was crushed.

Later, I started to question if she really was a virgin and even called her up crying. She reassured me I was her first.

Eventually I made her mad and she told me to never talk to her again.