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One of my close friends started dating a Narcissist. It didn't end well. She almost took her life. Before they were official she went to visit her best friend and used him as a rebound to get over him, but went back to the narc anyway.

She dated the narcissist's best friend first, had a baby, lost a 2 week old baby girl with him and he left her few months after the burial. She then tried to take her life, soon after she started dating his best friend (the Narcissist) for 2 years, She started using heavy drugs on and off and drinking a lot, left him, tried to take her life again and now is dating her own best friend (the rebound guy) who she has always been using as a rebound. Is this at all normal?

The moment she and the Narcissist broke up she traveled by bus again 5 hours to see her best friend (rebound guy) and slept with him again. Came back and next moment a month after the breakup started dating the best friend (rebound guy) who she says she has known for 13 years. She suddenly loves and have loved him for 13 years but always chose other guys over him in fear of what he can offer her and was running away from him. Describes him as a perfect human and is perfect for her, doesn't judge her and knows everything about her.

The best friend is also a psychologist (Nothing against psychologists) and has major influence over her. We don't think 1 month is enough time to get over everything after a relationship of 2 years. All of us tried talking to her. But she doesn't want to listen to anyone. She pushes everyone away including family.

Ignores and manipulates her own psychologist and psychiatrist about her mental health and go against what the doctors keep telling her to not drink while on the meds but she doesn't listen and the "best friend" doesn't do anything to try and stop her when she does impulsive things. Lets her drink and do drugs.

Is this normal and just a phase, and what can we do to help her? How do we approach this? Any advice at all will be helpful.

I was out with my girlfriend and a few other couples last night for drinks.

When we arrived one of my girlfriend's female friends complimented her on her dress saying 'i'm so jealous, flat chested women can get away with so many cute styles'!

My girlfriend took this well at the time but when we got home she was tearful. Saying how she wanted a boob job and she feels humiliated by her chest.

I didn't think the comment was that deep and it seemed meant as a compliment.

Is describing someone as flat chested always an insult for women? I don't know how to cheer her up :(

This discussion started a few days back when I went to meet a few of my friends. One of them commented - "you could be a fuckboy!" (Referring to another guy). The same was said to me once.

😂 This is just for fun, I'll describe the two guys (one of them being me). You decide whom you would consider to be a fuckboy and whom would you be interested in.

Guy1 features:

Is a professional singer and has a mesmerizing voice

Is humble but doesn't have much time for you as he's mostly busy with work

Is somewhat rich. Owns a car. Runs a business.

Has a lot of contacts with famous people (because of his job).

Is vegetarian. But doesn't mind if you are non vegetarian, as long as you don't force him to try non veg.

5'6" height. Healthy physique. Curly noodle-like hair.

Has a lot of friends but most of them are friends only for his fame. Very few genuine friends.

Likes to keep up with trends and fashion.

Does not drink/smoke for his voice, but enjoys parties and dancing and will sing for you.

You might get a free meals at top 5 star hotels as he has a lot of connections there.

Guy2 features:

5'8" height. Lean stature. Defined jawline.

Looks nerdy and is somewhat nerdy. Wears glasses.

Is humble and polite and very patient.

Sweet talker and will take out time for you if he's interested.

Has a mediocre job. No assets.

Very popular among his peers for his nature and behaviour. Had a lot of friends male/female.

Not a vegetarian.

Has a bland fashion sense. Wears overfit clothes and doesn't keep up with trends.

People tend to trust him very easily. Has the "innocent trustworthy guy" face

Does not drink or smoke or enjoy dance parties.

Which one seems interesting to you? Whom would you be interested to date? One of them is me (and I think it's obvious which one)