Search Results: women with a little bit of belly

WITHOUT getting shamed?

According to SOME on here, it seems like we aren't allowed to have any - I've seen many on here who are very reasonable too, before anyone starts crying:

• If we want women to shave her body hair, we're petty, because it's 'natural' yet the same user is happy to be repulsed by a man who's balding or has a bit of a belly, despite those being natural, as we age.
• If a guy doesn't want to go down on his woman, he's gay and will get dumped.
• If we care about a woman's body, it's because we're 'ugly', yet one of them who shamed us, said she wouldn't date a male slut.
• If we want to date younger, '80-90%' of us are pedos, but women who date younger 'have options'.
• If we don't want to date a single mother, it's because we aren't 'quality men' who can handle it.
• If we complain about losing our assets in divorce, we're 'disgusting' and deserve it for being a 'POS husband'.

Some of the women's standards rule out the most men, but men aren't allowed to rule out any, not to mention the countless movements you have for women, basically shaming men or forcing them to accept women that they would otherwise find undesirable.

'Body positivity' - "accept me for being fat" - okay, but where's the one for short or fat men?

Let me guess, it's 'female nature' to be XYZ and male to XYZ - okay, but are you doing your own part by having kids or your other feminine duties? - Seems like men have to do their's at all times, but can't expect nothing in return to be a 'quality man' & women just want the leverage to feel superior.

There seems to be a theme to deflect accountability/have a different attitude towards shitty female behaviour vs male - instead, lets cry about F&F, KS & Tate, but not focus on the women who go choose to go on their shows & embarrass themselves or deluded women like little Miss cupcake who went on the Steve Harvey show. 😂

Actually answer the question instead deflecting & remember that I am talking about a few on this site.

My sister was telling me about this tonight. My sister is a bit of a stuck up bitch, if I'm honest, but I'm wondering if she's right about this. I'm paraphrasing, but she basically said that women will sometimes flirt with and date guys who aren't as desirable as the woman actually wants, to work her way up to guys she actually wants to date.

Think of like flirting with or dating the chubby but nice guy to see if you can land a better guy down the road. I'm a little bit chubby myself, and she was saying I need to lose weight. I hear what she's saying, and I agree that I need to lose weight, but the dudes I see getting girls (girls at least as hot as the kind who show interest in me), are at least as heavy as me. Because of that reason, and some other life experiences that I have had, I just don't think my weight matters that much in dating. I am open to being wrong though.

Do women actually do this? How much of a turn off is it for a guy to have a belly and love handles?

So I'm losing weight and I'm determined to keep it going until I'm truly Slender, as in I don't look down and see a belly bump.

Also this is going along with trying to get rid of any bad habits that I have That are not good for me either in the sense that they affect my sleep or could cause anxiety or Affect my general stamina and my skin looks to some extent.

Outside of dealing with the weight loss marks so to speak.

I'm trying to pay off a car like a fiend and save up money for a house I'm about to buy. I'm also trying to make sure that no matter what I'm set up financially once I leave my place so that's why I'm only slowly trying to buy up a wardrobe. I'm gonna try to buy clothes that are so tight I barely fit into them little-by-little until I actually do.

I understand fully that looks aren't purely everything in dating but They do help a bit. I mostly want to look good so that I feel more confident and feel better about myself and everything

I am about 5' 9" or 5' 10" tall. I have a long torso. I am just wondering what clothing styles you all like on Slightly more slender Men. For formal, casual, And semi formal casual... also what cologns you all like.

Also I have thick somewhat coarse wavy brown hair so I'm curious what hair style women like on men with my hair type.

I'm ideally trying to show that I make at or somewhat above the amount of money of what I make with out being tacky..

Lastly tell me anything else you can think of relating to style and hygene I forgot to mention that a guy such as myself can work on... especially things loads of men neglect to do but shouldn't be