Polls: Dating

Someone had asked a question what is bothering you right now? Well thanks to her I am now posting a question.

So my boyfriend hasn't texted him for two days, no contact. About a week ago he said he wanted some space, we texted every day, me initiating most of the time. And he knows I am alone this weekend and he hasn't reached out to see how I am. Why should I have to do everything? Why should I be the first text? Why hasn't he contacted me? It's not hard, even something as simple as, "hope you had a good day, been busy, goodnight honey." That would be enough. I don't ask for much. Ugh! It's weird though, I don't miss him as much as I used to. Sometimes I had missed him so much that I cried but I don't feel that way now. Now it's just like, I miss him ok but I'm doing alright, hanging in there for the most part.

I know this question has been asked many times before, but I'm bored.
There are some pictures so you can see more clearly what I mean ! For guys and girls.

And I of course mean naturally pale and naturally tan^^

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/ PALE SKIN /


/ TANNED SKIN / OLIVE SKIN / DARKER SKIN TONE /

Please vote in the poll.

Also, if a girl you really like has all the assets but has small breasts, would that be a turn off and make you like her less?

I have only kissed one guy, and while the relationship never went anywhere due to circumstancial problems we couldn't avoid, I still wondered how I could have felt that spark with him, but not while kissing him. I think it would have gone somewhere if not for the circumstances, but it just wasn't going to be possible.

But still, as much as I liked him, when we kissed it wasn't bad at all, it just wasn't like... wow. I'm curious if it gets better or if has to do with the person or what? Because people talk about kissing as though it feels really good and stuff and like... it was fine, but I felt more just from cuddling and stuff than from kissing. What have your experiences been with this? Is it certain people that give you that extra feeling? Or is it about practice and experience? Or am I just weird and don't think it's that great haha?

Let's get real.
This happens a lot
But I've never seen the opposite.

So there girls
have any chances to date these guys?

You know, if someone hugs you and rubs your upper back while they do it? Even if it's just a brief hug?

Opinions?

I went on a date with a lady two weeks ago and it went perfect, I know I definitely like her. We was meant to have a date this Saturday but I've gone and cancelled it, I told her it was a bad idea. Please don't tell me I'm an idiot because I am aware of it.
I was really hungover yesterday and she's been off with me recently and I was feeling crap yesterday so it just seemed like a good idea to cancel it. I know she's pissed with me and I honestly don't blame her, I'm pissed off with myself too.
Also i'm scared of getting hurt again but I realise I can't live in the past, she could be something positive to happen to me.
With it being valentines on Sunday I was going to buy her a rose on Saturday and kiss her. Obviously I am probably the last person she wants to see right now.
I am thinking of somehow finding her on Saturday and then kiss her and tell her how much I actually like her. I just don't know if it's a good idea?
I've really messed up and I want to make it up to her :(
Please can you tell me whether it is or not?

I had Bell Palsy a while ago and as a result the left side of my face has some paralysis to it (It looks similar to the image posted below). Since recovering from Bells Palsy I've been very self conscience about the paralysis. Always feeling like everyone is staring and wondering what happened (though i know thats not true).
But anyways my question to you guys is if youd have a problem dating a girl with some facial paralysis such as myself?
Thank you :)

Nupe: A man of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity Inc. (Historically black fraternity)

I was sexually abused when i was younger, and grew up in a rough home. I don't like to use those things as an excuse for anything but i do get horrible night terrors. They started when i was ten and have always made me wet the bed, Not every not, but often enough. Sometimes a few times awake, when i'm lucky sometimes just a couple times a month. I have seen doctors, and have tried treatments and have experimented myself on ways to fix or conrol it for years. Nothing has helped. Now i'm dating a really sweet amazing guy. He knows just because i have stayed at his house and didn't want him to have to deal with that. He always says it's fine but i've been lucky enough to not have had it happen at his house. If it does i'm scared he'll see me differently or want to break up. Any advice at all? I have considered never dating. Honestly. He always is so sweet and caring with me though.

I had a hard time trying to find the words for the title. I do not mean to say that tomboyish girls are not pretty, some really are, but here I am meaning those who do away with make up and aren't always overly feminine. And feminine here means those who wear make-up, and quite a bit, daily and style their hair perfectly.
That said, I was wondering if most guys prefer the dainty, made-up girls (those who wear quite a bit of make-up, but not masses quite)?
The stereotypical 'jock' can often be pictured with this type of girl, but even the guys who may be thought of as different, like into alternate sports, history, things that aren't expected of some young men, are into the same kind of dainty, feminine girls, even though some may think they wouldn't be into that kind of girl.
So lads, guys, men etc., of all types with your varying differences in hobbies and interests, from metalheads to rappers and all in between and wherever, do you prefer the dainty, feminine type or not? Or both or neither? Please comment too.

Not on some racist issue, either. I kind of understand when black men say, there's a different between black men dating white women and black women dating white men. When black men date white women, they are sort of getting back at white men. When they create biracial kids, 8/10 times that biracial kid will end up with a black person. So, the black population just increases. When a black woman dates a white man, that's like dating your opressor and you are disrespecting every black man in the entire world. That's just what I believe. What do you think?

Like could you let another guy see you naked again?

I recently just found out the guy I like gets cold sores, which is a depressing fact for a germaphobe like myself :/. I'm aware that fever blisters are very common, but they are something I have tried to avoid, and if I ever got into a relationship with someone who gets them they'd be pretty difficult to dodge. I'd like to hear everyone's thoughts about this: are they deal breakers for you? Why or why not? Enlighten and educate me, too, if you want. I feel like I'm being pretty shallow.