To my understanding, a girl's sensitivity when it comes to her boobs is equivelent to a guy's sensitivity when it comes to his penis.
Our penis is something that we believe our entire masculinity, looks, and value as a man is dependent on. If it is insulted, it is crushing and its something that i personally would never get over. I would feel so inadequate, insecure, and depressed around my partner, that I'd never be the same with them again, and if i ever got into a new relationship it'd still haunt me. And I'm pretty sure its the same for most guys.
A HUGE portion of our self value is based on the size, appearance, and capabilities of our penis. If the comparison stated above is accurate, then I'm sure a woman would be equally crushed to hear such a thing about her breasts.
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Dump him. Every man should love and respect a woman he loves.
That sucks of him to say but just because he doesn't like them doesn't mean another guy won't like them.
I had an ex who told me I had weird nipples. Sure, it made me self conscious about them, and it took me 4 years to let another guy see them. My current boyfriend is obsessed with my nipples. He makes me feel amazing. It wasn't my ex boyfriend's cup of tea. But I'm glad I showed them to my current boyfriend.
Would I get over it? Eventually, but he would never get to see my chest again since it would probably make me question the relationship. I'm not sure why any man would think it's okay to tell his girlfriend or wife that any part of her body is "ugly." That's just disrespectful and unnecessary.
Even if I had a boyfriend he would have NO right to tell me that. And if he truly loved me he would love everything about me, so I would dump him for offending me like that just because I dont meet his preferences. I wouldn't go around telling him his dick is too small
He's being mean just to be mean. I'd dump him. All boobs are great.
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Iam so sorry a man has done this to you. It is actually unforgivable. I'd like to think he'd never get to see any woman's breasts again. Men like this don't deserve the pleasure of a woman's intimate company. Mostly because they have no idea what a few words can do to a woman's confidence.
Yes you can get over this but it will take the right sort of caring guy.Well, if you kneed him in the nuts with all your might, I think it would help you get over it. And he deserves it! Byt the way, "Boyfriends do not do that. Assholes do."
If my girlfriend called my penis ugly, I'd ask if she was teasing me or joking, if she meant it, ideally I couldn't care less, I'd just fuck her harder next we have sex. But I'd certainly look down on her each time we have sex and feel less attracted towards her personality which might end up in me dumping her and get bored with her. What he said was very hurtful, if you love him and he loves you maybe move on from what he said, but if he realy hurt you leave him... :)
I guess if it was my husband I'm stuck with him. If it's a boyfriend I'd leave him.
And no matter what he said in the future I'd never forget it.Don't worry about it.
1) Even if they're ugly, he can't shame you on something you can't control.
2) What he's taking for granted and considering ugly, someone else will appreciate it about you and tell you how much he loves them.
3) Listen to the song that goes like "You are beautiful, no matter what they say".Will he ever get over it if you tell him his performance in bed is weak that you had better experiences in the past? What do you think? Saying shit like that to your SO may do some considerable damage to their esteem. They lean on you for support; a little restraint on an opinion on their physical appearance would be nice. Some women are emotionally fragile.
Your boyfriend said that to you? Wow, what a jerk.
I'd leave him if I were you. I don't think he's the type you'll be able to have a healthy relationship with. And besides, you'll find someone who truly appreciates you for you.Seriously? Did he say that? That's horrible and I wouldn't like that one bit. What about his ballbag? Is that purdy?
I'd be hurt and insecure about them for the rest of my life. And I'd probably don't believe if anyone tried to convence me the otherwise.
My boyfriend and any other good boyfriend wouldn't say shit like that. Dump his ass and find someone who appreciates what you have.
I would think that would be a great reason to let other guys see you naked
That sounds dreadful - I would give relationship careful thought and if it ended I would not let an ex's poisoned view damage any future relationship.
I'd probably be crazy self conscious of my tits if s guy ever said that to me!! I'm sure I would get naked in front of another guy but I'd be more shy about it! Hopefully that never happens to me 🙈
That was really rude an insensitive of him. I do hope you get over it though.
I'm obviously not a girl but i vote 'A'
What is good for one is not for another and vice versa. There will be those out there who will love the same tits and find it irresistible :)Sure. Just because one didn't like them, doesn't mean no one else would like them.
Tell him then maybe I should ask your best guy friend why he thinks of them
I'd be very hurt by that lol. But I would get over it.
I'd never tell my girlfriend her boobs are ugly no matter what size or how they looked.
yeah, my tits are small and not as perky as I'd like so it's all good. At least he's being honest.
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