I was sexually abused when i was younger, and grew up in a rough home. I don't like to use those things as an excuse for anything but i do get horrible night terrors. They started when i was ten and have always made me wet the bed, Not every not, but often enough. Sometimes a few times awake, when i'm lucky sometimes just a couple times a month. I have seen doctors, and have tried treatments and have experimented myself on ways to fix or conrol it for years. Nothing has helped. Now i'm dating a really sweet amazing guy. He knows just because i have stayed at his house and didn't want him to have to deal with that. He always says it's fine but i've been lucky enough to not have had it happen at his house. If it does i'm scared he'll see me differently or want to break up. Any advice at all? I have considered never dating. Honestly. He always is so sweet and caring with me though.
- deal breakerVote A
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The only tip I'd have would be possibly adult diapers when sleeping in the same bed as me.
Of course it isn't a deal breaker if you care about the person. Whenever you find someone you care about there isn't much that would be a deal breaker ( unless you're like an in-the-closet serial killer or something ). Everyone has their problems, everyone. As Sam Keen said "We come to love not by finding a perfect person but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly." So at the end of the day that right guy won't care, and whether that is or isn't your boyfriend, it doesn't seem like he cares either.1