Questions: Dating

Everywhere I look to find a girl, she’s provocatively dressed on social media, has a bad attitude, despises me etc.

No one is perfect. But dating is literally looking for gold in a mud pit.

Everyone else seem to have luck except me.

As a man I don’t see what value we bring to a woman.

All women I meet are all independent. Quite feminist.

I don’t really see what value is added being a man nowadays

I’ve had zero success with women anyway. I think I have to die alone.

Women have so much value, their beauty, they can give life, be nurturing, earn a living for themselves. Being a man is shit, women can do more. Women can even make easier money from selling pics of their feet.

I’ve met a girl and she says she’s had 9 inches before. Like wtf. There’s me thinking I’m really good 🤦

I asked one of my tinder matches for an activity date but she suggested wine at her place instead. I ordered food and we small talked on the couch, then ate and back at the couch again.

After 3 hours she asked when the sun set is, it was getting dark. (Was this my sign to leave?)

We talked some more then she asked if we should put on a series.
We started an episode and I put my arm around her and she leaned in on me, put her head to my shoulder and her hand on my knee. After a while we grabbed hands. I rubbed her shoulder and she stroked my hand on and off.

After the second episode I said that I don’t want to take up her whole evening (might have mumbled a bit) and she asked if she should start another episode or not. Which I replied that it’s probably time for me to leave.

(This was 5 hours in).

We hugged and I left. The morning after I thanked her and apologised for occupying her whole evening. She replied that she had a great time and didn’t acknowledge the time part. I asked for her number and she gave it to me. She hasn’t replied as quickly today or with as enthusiastic emojis though.

I feel like I might have overstayed. Or am I just dense?

I can’t get involved with randoms because I crave emotional contact and the feeling they are mine exclusively

This is just a copy of the same question posted yesterday, but for girls.

Link to the original question: Guys, is a woman who preferred videogames over partying in her teens, a turn off?