Did I stay too long (5 hour first date at her place)?

[Anonymous]

I asked one of my tinder matches for an activity date but she suggested wine at her place instead. I ordered food and we small talked on the couch, then ate and back at the couch again.

After 3 hours she asked when the sun set is, it was getting dark. (Was this my sign to leave?)

We talked some more then she asked if we should put on a series.
We started an episode and I put my arm around her and she leaned in on me, put her head to my shoulder and her hand on my knee. After a while we grabbed hands. I rubbed her shoulder and she stroked my hand on and off.

After the second episode I said that I don’t want to take up her whole evening (might have mumbled a bit) and she asked if she should start another episode or not. Which I replied that it’s probably time for me to leave.

(This was 5 hours in).

We hugged and I left. The morning after I thanked her and apologised for occupying her whole evening. She replied that she had a great time and didn’t acknowledge the time part. I asked for her number and she gave it to me. She hasn’t replied as quickly today or with as enthusiastic emojis though.

I feel like I might have overstayed. Or am I just dense?

Stayed too long

Didn’t stay too long

Stayed too long for a first date but she didn’t mind

[TalynMere]

It sounds like it was a little awkward but overall good enough. Give her some space and then try again when it feels right. Not every first date needs to be incredibly memorable and perfect. Adults who respect themselves take time to be comfortable.

[Nikki1989]

No, it seems all good to me.

[boobliker]

if she dumped you then yes otherwise not at all

[Iron_Man]

How long was it

[ColHathi]

5 hours, going by the title.

[Iron_Man]

it’s ok but that a long time at her place instead of going out

[In_Trance]

I don't think so

[Neufd]

It’s fine