I understand it is more or rant and not for advice, so take from this what you want. Going to the club should be about spending time with your friends and having a good time. I never went there with the intention of meeting any women. That being said, if you ignore them, they will come.
Quite often, I would get a couple of numbers, if I just went there with intention of having some drinks and dancing with friends. I have a pretty good sense of humor which often helped with girls that decided to dance with us. That was often an in with younger girls your age. They are there for a good time, so why not be their good time and make their evening a lot of fun.
So, the club scene is good for meeting someone, but it is often short term, and is an entirely different animal, unless you are looking for a party-girl.
If you really want to meet someone for a long term relationship, then skip the club scene and go to coffee shops, or better yet help out at a local charity or fundraiser. You tend to find girls with great morals helping other people and that's the type of person you want to meet, that is kind and generous with her time. Women who help other people are not looking for an assertive person like at the club scene, they are looking for a guy who shows his kind, compassionate, genuine side. However, donating your time to a charity should be 95% about the charity and not meeting women, it just happens to be a place to make those connections. And, don't worry if there aren't many young women helping at the charity. The best way to meet younger women is through their mothers. I met two great younger women via their mothers, because the mothers vouched for me while I was donating my time at the hospital. Win their mother's approval and they introduce you to their daughters.
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I'm reading your post and I have almost the exact experience like you, despite girls ALWAYS complementing how attractive I am. Don't change yourself just to get girls bro, thats foolish, and you'll lose your identity for girls who still won't appreciate you the way you deserve to be appreciated. They will never change themselves for you, i guarantee you that, and it will be hard to keep up the fascade because thats not who u truly are. You will meet the right one who you can be yourself around. Stay true to yourself and wait for them to show up in your life. I found a really nice girl who I don't have to pretend around, and she accepts all of who I am, that's the greatest feeling
Show the women you have value. If she doesn't respond in a long time when she does leave her on read for 12 hours make her start overthinking.. its evil but it works. Also never ever tell a woman you are a virgin or never been with a girlfriend before unless she is an extremly religious woman. Lie say you have been with women before. I'm just being honest.. reality isn't always pretty.
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How many women do you greet by name? Outside work?
man, near the panic button age
Just live life and try to have fun.
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