Why is my luck with women so bad?

[YummyKrap]

A picture of myself sitting in my uncle's recliner. But, this is what I look like. I try to approach as much beautiful women as I can but, I end up getting rejected or they're already dating someone. I'm not sure what's wrong with me, but you can point out anything that I might be doing wrong. I usually start off a conversation by saying hi and ask the girl what her name is. However, certain women just give me the stink eye and walk away. Is it because I'm not attractive or am I not socially acceptable to them? I have a job, but have no car, and I make little money. The only thing impressive about me is that I'm a good artist and writer. I'm sometimes funny. Can any of you tell me why my luck with women goes south so fast? If so, I'd really appreciate your answers.

[Nik1hil]

You are just like me, ZERO fashion sense..

A girl was generous enough to fix me, I will help you.

Okay here is where you start..

1) Go on a diet and lose weight. Reach average on BMI. You need to reduce like 8% of your current weight!

2) Start mewing, or chew gum and get a better jawline.

3) Get a simple proper haircut. And shave off your beard and mustache one time. Then let it grow properly. Keep the mustache and shave the beard. if you have a double butt chin. Keep a French beard.

4) Hit the gym, or exercise 1 hour daily, to build muscle. You don't need to be a gym freak but have enough muscles to support your body weight for very long and look capable enough to lift her.

5) Always wear a proper button-down Shirt. Put on pants, not Jeans. T-shirt and jeans is blue-collar labor workers. Women are attracted to money. Those Blue-collar labour workers are physically so in shape that, women are attracted to them too but it is not happening in your case.

6) Buy proper professional black and brown shoes the kind that needs to be polished., no sports shoes, sneakers, or crocs.

7) Get a classic Dial watch to suit your wrist size. Ask a female friend or sister or a male gay friend, to help you pick one.

This will just help you get physically ready.. after this communication is the GAME, if you have it, you will take her with you very easily..

If you want more such tips.. you need to get a real female friend. or even better, if you have a male gay friend. Tell, "Turn me into the kind of man, you would want to pick from a bar." If Gay men are good at anything is fashion.

Gay men are Kryptonite bullets that you can leverage against women!..

[syncheart]

This is why I consider getting a woman not worth it.

[Nik1hil]

@syncheart Yes, This is all it takes, but once you have this all prepared, then this just does not open the door to one woman. But it opens the door to a number of women.

I never said commit or get married, I said what it takes to be eligible.

It is not worth it if you aim to do this for "a woman".

Imagine doing this and getting involved with 15 women in one year. 5 women in each 3 towns closest to you!.
Now suddenly it is worth it. It is like.

To tighten a screw buying a power drill isn't worth it, but if you want to screw a 1000 times, buying a power-drill is totally worth it.

[syncheart]

You couldn't make me look good if you wanted too. lol

[Nik1hil]

@syncheart That's the best joke!..

The looks I am asking him to change are not for the women. Women don't love with eyes, women love with ears.

But a man's appearance, adds to a woman's value. Women want to be seen with and approached by men who appear attractive by social standards. Women display herd behavior.

If a woman is already in love with a man, but if that man shows up dressed like this guy at the bar, where she is. She will still want to distance herself from him. Publically her respect and value are very important for women.

If she is seen going with guys like this, she permanently closes her door to find a better guy in the future. Women are always scoping for better options. She isn't yours, It's just your turn.

Just dress up and be good enough that she is willing to let you have a turn.

[Jersey2]

Get a good hair cut. Ask a talented female stylist what would look good. Get some better clothes, more fashionable with being too fashionable. A confident male spreads out, you body language is covering up so not confident. Good looking women have many choices so most are indeed taken. But many are not. Be careful what you wish for though. A really good looking woman could be high maintenance.

[YummyKrap]

Good advice. How would I look to most beautiful women I meet?

[KrakenAttackin]

Agreed, also ditch the tshirts for button up collared shirts. Totally agree with the above re body language, you look defensive. There are great books on body language that can be very helpful with reading other people and presenting your best self.

[Jersey2]

@YummyKrap Thanks for MHO. And I had a typo, clothing should be more fashionable without being too fashionable. *.

[Jersey2]

@KrakenAttackin I agree with the button up shirt as well. Some polo shirts would be good like below. I generally leave them untucked but if I do tuck the in I would have a solid leather belt, not the crap the model is wearing. White shorts are okay in summer in this picture, not other seasons unless its hit where you are but even then some women will notice but maybe thats a good thing like I don’t care about fashion rules attitude, I’ve done it.

Colors of the shirts, black, yellow, white, red, purple, blue (which many women have as a favorite color). Try a Ralph Lauren/Polo outlet if they have them near you. Then get a nice black leather jacket. I like leather but some women may not like that as many are vegan, vegetarian etc.

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[Jersey2]

If you do polo outlet, sign up for their extra discounts via texts. Find a 25-50% sale there and then add another 20-30% text discount in top of it and you will save a lot which means you can buy more which means you have a deeper wardrobe to go to.

[Jersey2]

Of and not hit regarding the white shorts, hot*. Typo.

[Anonymous]

You have a cute face and a good personality! But in this picture, you present yourself as a high schooler, not a 24 year old man. I agree with some of the other comments, change the hair and either shave or groom the beard. I would also recommend investing in dress shirts. They don’t have to be fancy, but every guy I’ve met looks handsome in a button down shirt, with the sleeves rolled up, and a nice pair of slacks. 😊

[KrakenAttackin]

Bingo.

[HateyouxD]

Change up your clothes... get a fresh haircut and trim that beard up you'll be dripping in pussy man

[Middleman]

Hi there,

Aside from changing your attire and looks as many have mentioned here, I think getting into a regime of regular exercise and getting rid of that belly of yours should be a top priority. Aside from looks, women want someone who has the physique to protect them from trouble (aside from other things).

[Drumlin2001]

Maybe you're reaching too high. You're a six, you need to reaching at that level. Also maybe you need a better opening line, get them laughing.
Maybe also think about you're appearance ( I know it's shallow but first impressions and all that), new haircut, new clothes.

[YummyKrap]

That isn't particularly good advice. I used to be a 9 when I was in shape. So if u have any better advice than that, stop commenting on my page

[Drumlin2001]

Funny. Other have told you to have a haircut and change your clothes and you says it's good advice...

[Joshydavid25]

Well, you look a bit homely to be honest.. And in the photo kinda feminine.. Like the others have said, get a good haircut.. Look up some good fashion for men to suit your physique in the meantime.. Maybe start hitting the gym to slim down.. And get a skincare routine.. Also maybe you might wanna at least work on getting a higher skills to get a better job.. And I don't know if you are going up to them with confidence..

[LadiesFavoriteToy]

clean your self up, buy some good cloths. Drop the kids clothing. shave and trim the hair a bit. You look like a Q-tip.

[Joker_]

strange, you look alarmingly similar to @Worst and yet he has great luck with women

[Worst]

Wtf lol

[Ms_Facesitter]

I would get rid of the beard, and a sharp haircut :)

[MissBoogus]

You are attractive, that’s not the problem. Perhaps you’re too nice lol

[Iron_Man]

You’re young yet

[YummyKrap]

I'm 24 years old. Most people start to date around 13 or 14 years old. Out of my 24 years, I haven't dated a single woman. It just makes me feel bad when I face constant rejection

[Iron_Man]

No way their kids most parents would never allow that

[Anonymous]

You could fix your hair and have a shave.

[YummyKrap]

Yeah, I can do that. But do you think I could date a beautiful woman with a good personality if it wanted right now?

[Anonymous]

Get a haircut

Shave

Wear adult/ professional clothes

[sheikalana]

The trick here is you need to keel trying.

[Nik1hil]

Ignore her, she is making fun of you!.. Asker, you are making a good change!.. i hope you continue with it.

[sheikalana]

@Nik1hil I’m not making fun of anyone.

[Nik1hil]

What do you mean by "Keel" is it a typing mistake

[sheikalana]

@Nik1hil I meant keep.

[Nik1hil]

Okay,
Then you are not making fun of him!. just being supportive

[Anonymous]

Start doing some strength training...

[jahaims]

It's has nothing to do with luck