Polls: Dating

Let’s say the girl you really like is going to breakup with you when you’ve been a good partner.

Don’t give her closure just ghost her. She’ll never get you off her mind.

Women can’t get those ex’s out of their mind

I dated a slightly older girl and it almost destroyed my life.

I guess we are at slightly different stages of life and she expects more

Guy makes 2X girl but had only worked for 1 year and a bit. He comes from a very wealthy family. Girl has been working for 4 years, both are educated professionals.

Guy paid for first 5 dates then they did 50/50, they don’t go and do expensive things. Just normal dinners and coffee.
The girl is very beautiful.

If after a breakup if they don’t block me does that mean they probably never loved/cared about you

My opinion is that it’s because young women are encouraged to prioritise themselves over everyone. Like to be a wife and a mother you need a degree of selflessness. Gen Z and below don’t have that.
Like girls will only look at a guy and be like what does he do for me and not vice versa.

Obviously not all women. They’ll always be good ones. But most.

Would this shock a girl if her ex became so successful like imagine like Elon musk. Very wealthy and famous

https://www.vice.com/en/article/people-are-reverse-catfishing-on-dating-apps-now/

apparently this is a thing now. so in short this is an online dating trend where someone intentionally downplays their looks or status—using unflattering photos, outdated pictures, or omitting successes—to ensure potential matches like them for their personality rather than superficial traits.

She broke up with me for many reasons. Main reason I think is I didn’t make her feel special enough, she worried it could get messy. This girl was such a rare fine and too beautiful. I just can’t 😭. when we broke up I was hurt and told her not to contact me and unfollowed her off of instagram

I sent her a message 1.5 months after breakup a simple how are you etc.. she did ignore me

Message to send aswell as 100 roses 🥀

looking back on our relationship, I thought the connection we had was special and unique! The memories we made have stayed with me, I thought what we shared was genuinely meaningful. I do find myself thinking about you and wondering how you’re getting on, you meant a great deal to me and I still miss you much!

If you are open to it, I would really like to see you again and catch up it would be nice to hear from you 😊

When I last spoke to my ex she was really rude. She was horrible to me. I was just there taking the shots and saying sorry and I’ll do xyz to make her happy as I didn’t want her to leave.

When I look at the things I could have said about her, I could have said she’s emotionally unstable, insecure, v immature, flakey, selfish and not marriage material.

I should have ripped her apart. She painted me out as a bad partner when I was a good boyfriend to her.

I dated a very beautiful girl 😭, she was so unique and from my culture. She had fair skin and bright green eyes. Never seen anything like her in my life omg. How was she real?

We got on so well, great chemistry, same career. Parents liked me. My parents liked her. Insane compatibility.

Then at the end we were arguing. I was a good guy to her but made some poor decisions at the end like judged her a bit and may have been a bit abrupt. I am inexperienced being my first relationship. Then she dropped me like a hot potato.

It’s been a couple months and damn I can’t take it. I miss her like crazy. She was loving and sweet to me.

If you reach either awkward silences or any awkwardness at all do you take that as a sign the date isn’t going well?