Polls: Dating

The guy is from a really rich family and only recently started making a lot of money.

The first few dates the the guy paid. Then 50/50 on everything. Is there anything wrong with that?

He would spend hours on the phone everyday and drive to see her a lot straight after work.

Treated her well, caring, emotionally available. Even when broke up he did not insult her. Did gift her but not expensive things.

Girl felt the guy should have contributed more monetarily to make her feel special.

Is it reasonable to interpret that as a soft invitation for intimacy/flirting?

• She was kinda putting them up and it would have been pretty easy to just reach for them
• She just got them done
• She came that night to "play chess" on our phones which was not brought up once when she came here
• Pretty sure she's been trying to find a new guy to get away from her low effort ex
• I myself am not better than that guy 😂 in superficial terms 🤷🏼‍♂️
• This last one is here because I like bullit points

What do you guys think?

You literally see the best looking, richest and most successful men out there get cheated on and lose their wife. There’s just no way to keep a woman?

No man can get a woman that just like belongs to him only?

Are there many women out there that are more selfless. Being selfless is probably the best quality a girl can have in my view for a marriage to work. Less likely to fold under stress.

When you look at social media content it just programs women to prioritise only themselves over everyone. I see it a lot in women too, slight pressure then they break up.

Or no shaved

Apparently this is a thing in dating now

It is mostly about money and status if you want to attract a really beautiful modern girl.

They are used to receiving attention so the only way they can pick the best man is through who provides the best lifestyle?

I often hear this. Like women come to you only once you’ve established yourself and have money and the means to own a house is that true.

Imagine dating a guy from a really rich family and he earns double what you earn, making good money.

Let’s say he is cautious he pays for the first dates then requests 50/50. So you set up a joint account and put equal money in. He also gets you modest, not like designer stuff.

The reasons are due to concerns of being used, finding a gold digger, and being fair. Also concerns of like what if the girl leaves you and you’ve made this financial commitment to pay for the majority.

My Ex left me and the main reason was that I didn’t make her feel special. We did 50/50, she said she is used to guys paying for the majority and that I didn’t gift and buy her flowers.

One thing is that I do make a lot of money and my family is really rich.

Our relationship was very intense 4 months long and met the parents and talked a lot about marriage. I did gift her but not expensive stuff. she was very special to me and very beautiful.

Did I make a big mistake there? She isn’t poor, makes okay money.

For Gen Zs, let’s say a guy earns a lot but the girl also has her career too. Is it unusual for the guy to pay for the majority

I met my ex while we were sitting across from each other. She said that I was actually pretty handsome, but that my height was too short. I’m 174 cm and she was 160 cm. When I asked what she had expected, she said she would have wanted someone around 185 cm. Actually, this criterion reflects Turkish girls in general. Is it the same for you too?

Men are valued on how much money they have (how successful they are).
Most would argue women don’t owe men anything. Women are empowered to leave men

Once a guy gets married a woman has that hold on his financial assets and everything that man has had to go through hell to acquire.

Is that fair?

In a divorce no woman is fighting for half his love, just his money.

Women are independent financially so most of them think why do I need a man? So was that the real reason why we were even ‘loved?’

I live in Europe and most men are unmarried at 30. So many girls I know are single or very quick to leave a good guy.

When you look around it’s generally like wtf happened. What the point in getting married old when your girl is old too?