Polls: Dating

Should you really give your heart to a girl

A 28 year old girl who has been in 3 relationships and had another 3 relationships that were only short like a couple months. Had s*x with 3 guys and done some s*xual things with the others.

Is that normal or quite a lot of history?

The photo is exactly what I feel right now after my breakup! I was shocked my girlfriend left a guy like me who would’ve been 100/10 for her. I was far beyond any of her expectations and then we started arguing for a couple weeks, nothing that bad and then she ended things and got cold feet. We have a good connection and everything and I invested so much time into her.

Now I’ve lost hope.

I am Gen Z and I think maybe girls just aren’t built to fight for love just run away in difficulty.

I feel like women whatever decision they make they are applauded like ‘she chose herself’ even when it’s not a good decision she made.

A woman will never really hear, oh that’s a really stupid decision you made, or you’re an idiot for having xyz expectation.

What do you think? This is me coming in at it from a male point of view, men have to face reality and truth, but it seems like often women get to evade the true reality.

My girlfriend broke up with me and gave me loads of reasons why she didn’t want to be with me and I gave in to all her requests which may have made me look desperate tbh, but I liked her.

She kept saying not sure, not sure and I kept saying how I really want to make it work. I didn’t beg her to stay though. But tried my very best to try and keep her, saying I’ll work on all the things she said.

Then at the end, I said that I wish her luck in life and that I would appreciate if she never contacts me again, then proceeded to remove her off Instagram straight away.

Let’s say the first time you have sex with that person it was bad, a car crash. Is that reason to breakup with someone

People keep saying you do and it’s the only way to get a second date but my experience says otherwise

They are infected with Lycanthropy!

can you still date them?

Lycanthropy is a supernatural condition in which people actually assume the physical form of werewolves or other animals.

I didn’t kiss her as she said she puts her guard up on first dates as she feels a guy will make a move on her and kiss her whilst she’d rather go at her own pace but she liked me caressing her wrist and I wanted to respect her boundaries.

For this, what I mean is would you rather go on a date to a fancy dinner place or a more casual activity?

One I'd most want to do is cooking dinner together at a place. Fancy restaurants are awkward with the sitting across and whispering, no laughing or telling strange stories, it's the opposite of my idea of a good time.

Getting to know someone shouldn't feel like a job interview. For me to get anywhere with someone, the dresses need to come off, pun intended. I'd want to cook a meal with her, get to know eachother as we do, be all playful and silly, get past the edge and all that in a fun way, not staring across from a table and whispering at eachother.

I find it kinda hilarious, a room full of people in suits and dresses, whispering at eachother as if we can't all hear eachother, anyways... And let's not even discuss wine prices in restaurants. Rule of thumb, if the bottle is sold in the restaurant, you're almost certainly paying 5× retail price for the wine.

Would you rather have a more formal date with strict social boundaries or one that's loose and more personal?

Talking about those younger than 50 in particular, because after that age is not the same.