Polls: Dating

For most men, the requirements for a good woman are:

1. He needs to find you attractive (bare minimum is average (5/10), below average (4/10)

2. Show him respect

3. Show him affection

4. Don't be promiscuous or engage in sex work (malleable for a lot of guys)

5. Be loyal

6. Cook and clean (flexible in this day and age with a lot of guy dropping this as a requirement).

7. Be willing to have a kid for him

8. No substance abuse disorders (e. g. alcohol or illegal drugs)

9. No mental illness

For women, the requirements for a good man are:

1. Must meet a certain height threshold (usually 6'0 or taller; top 20% in height)

2. She needs to find you attractive (7+/10 or higher)

3. Must gain her friends and family approval

4. Must have good income/job/place/car (usually 6 figures)

5. Must show her affection

6. Must provide for her

7. Must protect/risk your life for you

8. Must be willing to self sacrifice yourself for her

9. Must take on leadership role/decision making

10. Must be loyal (flexible as a lot of women are willing to forgo this if other needs are met)

11. Must be experienced with women (women hate inexperienced men)

12. Must be highly socially intelligent/charming

13. Must have high status

14. Must have good social connections

15. Must display girl approval/value by displaying that other women want you.

I like this girl at work, but she is 19 and I am 29. I prefer younger women anyways.

Not that crazy guy who hate every one

Im just average joe

Average height 5'11

Average income maybe less right now but i have fait that this will be change

27 year old college educated

Like to be provider for my future wife and kids

But never bin lucky with girls

Not feeling good lately i start to loose hop to start a family

What d you think guys is there any hop ,

Have you ever bin in these phases?

Women seem to constantly ridicule and argue with men who state what their preferences are in a woman and a relationship. When men talk about what they want so many women get instantly triggered.

Or a person is sexy only if he/she is handsome/beautiful?

How would you take that information?

I have connected with a forty year old businesswoman from another country, she is who she says she is. She said she is looking internationally to see what's out there. Said men in her own country are ok she couldn't find one that wanted her. She travels alone a lot. Another colleague told me she has a female friend, high powered position and can't get a man to stick with her either. Am wondering in your experience or from similar successful businesswomen you know if it is an issue for successful women to be lonely for love.